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Topic: Is there such a thig as
Peccy's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:12 AM
being overly cautious in a relationship?

Bornnaked's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:12 AM
I do it all the time.

itsmetina's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:12 AM
Edited by itsmetina on Tue 05/13/08 07:14 AM
i'd say so sometimes i think ya just stop thinking and take a risk

Etrain's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:13 AM
I go for it and get burneddrinker

irad8you's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:14 AM
I would say yes

yayforchae's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:16 AM
Edited by yayforchae on Tue 05/13/08 07:16 AM
definitely... theres a fine balance to keep. you don't want to put yourself out there too much for fear of getting hurt, but not giving enough of yourself makes it more likely that the relationship will not make it


and this was totally my 200th post... woo woo woo laugh

whispertoascream's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:16 AM
I think so, you could be come over cautious to the point were jealousy kicks in, and that can be a relationship breaker in my books.

no photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:17 AM
r u guys afraid of getting burned or afraid of taking a chance

Jtevans's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:17 AM
nah,when i'm in a relationship i wear 3 condoms at all times smokin

lilith401's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:20 AM
Sure there is!

lilangel2's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:20 AM
yeah guess so


you could run someone off entirely

but, then again, if something is causing that caution

and you avoided your intution

and it turned out bad

could it be you tempted fate?


no photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:20 AM
is that to build gurth

irad8you's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:21 AM

r u guys afraid of getting burned or afraid of taking a chance
i have taken chances and have been burned, so yes i am cautious

Peccy's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:21 AM

nah,when i'm in a relationship i wear 3 condoms at all times smokin
can you say desensitized?

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:21 AM
Only if you start looking for reasons to doubt them when there is none.bigsmile

shoesmonkey's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:22 AM
I'm so afraid of it falling apart, I make it happen by holding back. And, on the other hand, I sometime's give too much to the wrong person by trying too hard.

no photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:23 AM

Only if you start looking for reasons to doubt them when there is none.bigsmile

jtip1977's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:25 AM
Absolutely. But usually when you are overly cautious it is due to the fact that you've been screwed over in one or more past relationships. Sometimes you need to just go with it and take that next chance.

Peccy's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:25 AM

Only if you start looking for reasons to doubt them when there is none.bigsmile
that makes sense

lilith401's photo
Tue 05/13/08 07:25 AM
I'd rather have it work out the way my last relationship did than lose out on the chance for happiness, though. Being to guarded can keep people away. I am pretty open and quite understanding, and I feel a need for reciprocity in that.

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