To be friends with someone and share interest's for a while. But to drop them as friends for no appearant reason.

OK lemme explain.
I started to chat with someone who shared common interests in the things I liked. I liked the things they liked as well. Hence the term "Common" interest. So for a few weeks we chatted, everything went well. Then out of the blue, nothing. I dont mean nothing to chat about. I don't mean nothing else in common. I mean no reply to anything I write. A simple hello to the person and nothing. First "hello how was your day?" the day after "Hello hru?". Two days goes by. "Hi how have you been these past couple days?". Then I decide, ok I will let her be for a while... maybe she is busy with work". The, four days goes by. I say hi like i usually do. She tells me she is busy. I ask is it ok to talk later on tonite. She says yes. OK fine, later on tonight. It's 9:30 when I wrote this the other day. I wait till 11:00pm. Nothing. I check the instant messanger. She is logged off. But she said she would talk to me later on that day. I know enough about IM devices to know that if you log off it say's "username" has logged off. That is why I am writing this. Why woudl someone say yes they will talk to you and then log off. Anyone have this experience before? Never mind I dont want any responses. I just want to get this off of my chest for now so I can sleep well tonight knowing someone has at least read this far.

such is the way of the world...happens to me all the time...and then comes the restraining orders

Not if you were naked!

(shakes her head at Etrain, yet again...)

Apparently she is just not into you any longer.....best just to move on

he's right...i got one against him...

We all do

sometimes this happens...maybe she just doesnt want to hurt your feelings..i know just tell you right..but i would just brush it off and move on buddy..youre better than that

whoo whoo!!! train coming through

good advice

I thought this was typical guy behavior, but apparently my gender also engages in it. If this girl is being this mean to you, then she's not worth your time.

Chin up, believe in yourself, and move on!

And welcome to the internet.

You can't let it bother you. There's a reason she didn't write back. Probably for the best anyway!

Brush it off you say. Move on you say. "MirrorMirror" knowing my other topics, and you say good advice. Ok well get this. On another site I used an application given by the site. its meant the same way as this site is meant. heres the thing about that. I had 185 hits to my profile. four of those hits were people interested. "A WEEK AGO" no response's. This site One response of someone interested. Am I that ****ed up in the head that al of what I am interested in is putting people off. Am I that ****ed up an individual that no one is somewhat interested.

Hsppemed to me twice with the same girl. It's lame. Best to collect your thougths and move on.

WTF kinda response is that. Ive been on the net for months now. Still nothing. Dead ends thats all "DEAD ENDS"

I've been on the internet for years and have more dead ends then right or left turns.....ya just have to keep trying and move on.

Ahhhh...this really bites. I'm sorry. I'm thinking that she's not someone you need in your life anyway. Keep looking...but not just here! Look EVERYWHERE! (((Anon)))

Best thing to do is take some lesson away from it.

Fact! She is not interested.
Disect all the times you wrote something and said you shouldn't have said that. Look at the number of messages you sent and the frequency. I don't know what to look for exactly brother but this approach didn't work. Refine yourself so the next one will work better. So you will feel more confident.

Look she was there, it was great, it WILL happen again with someone else. Collect your thoughts, take away what you can and then move on to someone else who is a better match.

Now thats something I wasn't expecting from anyone. That may be the single greatest piece of advice I have gotten in a while. Thank you.