i think there's a couple of ways to look at things in life.

one is to blame everyone else:
that woman is a bitch
those kids are bratty
my boss has it for me

etc etc.
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a long time ago, i gave that excuse giving up, and decided instead:
what can i do to change things.

going from a problem-centered approach to life, to a solution-centered
approach has totally change the way i see thing.

if you choose to look at it my way, i MAKE my own destiny, i MAKE my own
path in life.

if people can't get along with me, it's probably because they don't
understand me yet.

i get along with almost everyone i meet and i feel in control all the
time.

Andrew Wee
www.WhoIsAndrewWee.com
www.myspace.com/andreww38

after reading this, all ive got to say is that i better find a man
quick, while my boys are still little..yikes

i have to agree with both the adults and the teenagers,see adults don't want to give the kids attion or credit they try so hard for the parents aproval that they get left behind so they turn to kids at school they have to fit in and have the latest styles but you know that enviroment is not always good ,parents need to teach the kids right from wrong and direct them but give them room to make their own mistakes ,yes we want them to have what we didn't but you know teenagers are ppl too and they need to be treated like a person not a bowl of modeling clay ......some kids are bad becouse the parents don't care but most of them are good kids just have to let them grow up and find themselves.so ppl when you get into a relationship if you treat the kids with respect they will probly show you respect inless they sense the feeling of doubt .