Topic: I....
Toddo73's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:17 PM
....cannot belive what happened tonight.

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Sat 05/10/08 10:17 PM
noway

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:17 PM

....cannot belive what happened tonight.


Everything ends.

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Sat 05/10/08 10:20 PM
Understandably... Are you going to elaborate on what happened, or did I miss it, the situation you were in that you witnessed someone passing? Maybe it will help you to get it out of your head via the keyboard.... It sounds like it has profoundly effected you. :heart:

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:28 PM
I asked if you were okay... I guess you just want to be dramatic.

zanne46's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:34 PM
dramatic???

more like shock....

when in shock....

u may be able to speak of what happened..

but u may not be able to even answer a simple question of ...

"are u ok""

again no disrespect EtherealEmbers....

I was in his shoes..a few months ago...

the only good part was the 77 yr old man I take care of 24/7....

Lived...

I posted here...

but I was a wreck over the situation...

I willl answer for him..

In time..he will be ok..

but the situation is a life changing situation that will stay with him for ever...

My best to the poster..:heart:

My best to u EtherealEmbers...:heart: flowerforyou

Lakeman's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:36 PM
OK Toddo...did you take a trip over the rainbow with Dorothy or what???..LOL:wink: laugh drinker

zanne46's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:37 PM
Edited by zanne46 on Sat 05/10/08 10:39 PM

OK Toddo...did you take a trip over the rainbow with Dorothy or what???..LOL:wink: laugh drinker


he saw someone die in front of him today....sad

in community..read post "someone" by Todd

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:39 PM
sowwy, I'm sure you're right zanne46 flowerforyou to each his own

zanne46's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:41 PM
I am going to zip it....:smile:

Lakeman's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:46 PM
Sorry...I didn't knowthat you saw that....condolences.

Toddo73's photo
Sun 05/11/08 02:24 AM
I just ca'nt beieve it.

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Sun 05/11/08 04:35 AM
So Sorry Toddo for what you went through....sometimes it helps to talk to people..I know this. Take care

Toddo73's photo
Sun 05/11/08 09:18 AM
The guy had a heart attack and that was it. He was gone. I've never seen anyone die before. It blew my mind.

franshade's photo
Sun 05/11/08 09:19 AM

The guy had a heart attack and that was it. He was gone. I've never seen anyone die before. It blew my mind.


I am so sorry you went through that frown

redday88's photo
Sun 05/11/08 09:21 AM
it sucks watching people die...i work in an assited living/nursing home and we have people pass away pretty often..i hate to say it but eventually you get used to it...im very sorry that you had to see that though it is never fun

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Sun 05/11/08 02:38 PM

it sucks watching people die...i work in an assited living/nursing home and we have people pass away pretty often..i hate to say it but eventually you get used to it...im very sorry that you had to see that though it is never fun


I would like to thankyou RedDay for what you & others do.
We were by my mom's side when she passed last year in a nursing home. A young woman came to me and hugged me on our way out....she was a nurses aide there that had taken care of and befriended my mom..I know my mom trusted her. That meant so much to us.I think it takes a remarkable person to do what you do.


DebbieJT's photo
Sun 05/11/08 02:40 PM
i watched my mum die..i think anyone who works in that kind of job is a very special personflowerforyou

GREATGUY's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:02 PM

The guy had a heart attack and that was it. He was gone. I've never seen anyone die before. It blew my mind.


Death stalks all of us, if you run you just die tired. Life is so very precious, never take it for granted.