Topic: If someone tells you to call
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Sat 05/10/08 06:54 PM

I thought men had no problem forgetting about women.




Who was she.....again????????

DTHRomeo's photo
Sat 05/10/08 06:55 PM

I thought men had no problem forgetting about women.


I thought it was the other way around

rush2001's photo
Sat 05/10/08 06:55 PM
I wait and then I move on.

CLASSIC55's photo
Sat 05/10/08 06:56 PM
You mean you actually went on a date...man I'd just be content!

Excuse me while I go set myself on fire....

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Sat 05/10/08 06:58 PM

You mean you actually went on a date...man I'd just be content!

Excuse me while I go set myself on fire....


Isn't that a bit extreme?

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Sat 05/10/08 07:02 PM

them the next day after your first date and does not answer the phone or return your voicemail that day, do you call them the again the following day, wait a completely arbitrary amount of time, or simply wait them out until they do call?

In the latter case, if they do not call back, you simply move on.


I'D wait a day or two! Then, if they do not call back, you simply move on.

CLASSIC55's photo
Sat 05/10/08 07:02 PM


You mean you actually went on a date...man I'd just be content!

Excuse me while I go set myself on fire....


Isn't that a bit extreme?

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well...maybe just a tad laugh

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Sat 05/10/08 07:03 PM

You mean you actually went on a date...man I'd just be content!

Excuse me while I go set myself on fire....


don do that! no no.

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Sat 05/10/08 07:50 PM

them the next day after your first date and does not answer the phone or return your voicemail that day, do you call them the again the following day, wait a completely arbitrary amount of time, or simply wait them out until they do call?

In the latter case, if they do not call back, you simply move on.


Call ONCE after the first date. If they don't return your call/e-mail/smoke signal, delete their number/e-mail address/smoke signal blanket and move on, as it'll be pretty certain that the person's jerking your chain.

This happened to me on a couple of occasions. Total waste of time and sanity.

May777's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:10 AM

them the next day after your first date and does not answer the phone or return your voicemail that day, do you call them the again the following day, wait a completely arbitrary amount of time, or simply wait them out until they do call?

In the latter case, if they do not call back, you simply move on.


maybe they don`t want to appear too eager,..I`d give it some time,..

bad_girl's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:14 AM
Move on

Silntstrnger's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:17 AM
the ball would be in their court, i wouldnt call back. If they called great if not move on.

mry's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:17 AM

them the next day after your first date and does not answer the phone or return your voicemail that day, do you call them the again the following day, wait a completely arbitrary amount of time, or simply wait them out until they do call?

In the latter case, if they do not call back, you simply move on.



I would call them back with a big old WTF?? laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 05/11/08 06:20 AM
yea what she said.....

WTF.....you didnt call......

then...

stalk their azz...........

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AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:32 AM
In the age of cell phones and their issues I would give a second call a day or two later. I know I have had messages miraculously show up on my phone that were sent days earlier.

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Sun 05/11/08 06:34 AM

them the next day after your first date and does not answer the phone or return your voicemail that day, do you call them the again the following day, wait a completely arbitrary amount of time, or simply wait them out until they do call?

In the latter case, if they do not call back, you simply move on.


Personally, if I don't respond .. get the clue :wink: But then I wouldn't tell ya to call if I didn't want you to. that's messed up. devil

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:35 AM
smokin I'm too old for games................Next!!smokin

sleeplessingermany's photo
Sun 05/11/08 06:55 AM
...maybe the person in question just needs some space....


just wait and see.
if she is interested, she will call back. :wink:

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Sun 05/11/08 06:57 AM
If you felt there really was a connection, maybe give it 2 shots as calls & emails sometimes get lost. After that, forget about it as they weren't who you thought they were afterall anyway....... grumble

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Sun 05/11/08 07:07 AM
You mean that some people will actually talk to you after a date? Wow, what a novel concept!! Could you get that spread out to the midwest?