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Topic: Are you jealous?
RoamingOrator's photo
Sat 05/10/08 08:00 AM
I've never considered myself to be the jealous type. I don't really envy anyone, and as far as dating goes (which is what you really asked), I've always considered that trust is a key element, so I have no reason to be jealous.

Jill298's photo
Sat 05/10/08 08:03 AM
I think jealousy leads to control over another. I don't want someone to have control over me and I sure don't want to have contol over someone else. I want my s/o to be a good and honest person without me trying to make him be

Silntstrnger's photo
Sat 05/10/08 08:05 AM

I have had my moments but I'm not typically a jealous person. I figure if a guy is gonna cheat on me, he's gonna do it whether I'm jealous or not. So why get myself all worked up until he actually does cross the line?
Also when my s/o is jealous and defensive and makes me think he is cheating on me.
totally agree. If ur jealous it is only going to give the other person reason.

lilangel2's photo
Sat 05/10/08 08:10 AM
bigsmile The way I figure, if someone wants someone else besides me he is an idiot and I don't need him LMAO bigsmile laugh bigsmile laugh


(only speaking of a committed relationship)
(until it is committed, I am not jealous)

no photo
Sat 05/10/08 08:13 AM
The green-eyed monster lurks in us ALL to one degree or another. It is how we respond when it rears its ugly head that makes a difference.

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Sat 05/10/08 08:17 AM
Although jealousy is not healthy I am jealous with the one I care about and I love . It is just a part of love . For others : who cares !. :wink: drinker !.

lilangel2's photo
Sat 05/10/08 08:39 AM

Although jealousy is not healthy I am jealous with the one I care about and I love . It is just a part of love . For others : who cares !. :wink: drinker !.


A little jealousy is normal in a committed relationship...INSANE jealousy ; however, is a relationship killer!

scttrbrain's photo
Sat 05/10/08 08:50 AM
Jealousy is bad. It makes for a sick relationship. Sick as in; it hurts it, and all involved.

I am not a jealous person. I hate jealousy. If I feel the urge to be jealous, then it is time to sit down and have a talk.

Besides what is jealousy? Fear of the unknown, or fear of losing, an imagining? One cannot control anothers actions. So why sweat it? If I feel like my significant other is going to cheat; I can't stop it.

Time to move on or get over it. Not wasting my time on such a thing. And don't.

Kat


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Sat 05/10/08 08:55 AM
I get jealous whenever I feel insecure in a relationship...but I dont act on it and get over myself...frown

scttrbrain's photo
Sat 05/10/08 09:42 AM

I get jealous whenever I feel insecure in a relationship...but I dont act on it and get over myself...frown


Damn! Is that pic real?? That's just ugly. I love muscles, but daaaauuuummmnn. Too much of a good thing, don't cha think?

Kat

Peccy's photo
Sat 05/10/08 09:45 AM



It depends if I have reason to be, but not usually. I'm too big a flirt and secure for that.


Have you been cheating on me?!?laugh


laugh laugh laugh
Not yet.......lol

no photo
Sat 05/10/08 09:55 AM
jealousy is like bad fruit............


I aint eain it!!!!!!!!

laugh

DestinysDream's photo
Sat 05/10/08 09:58 AM
Trusting is part of a healthy relationship. I'm not a jealous person.

This one girl was breaking it off with me and said I was "controlling". This really bothered me so I asked my ex-GF of 8 years. She laughed and said, "You? Controlling?? Not in the least." I kept on asking her because I want to become a better person. Nope I'm not jealous and I'm not controlling.

bobbyblue's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:18 AM
YES I DO!!!!!!!

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