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Topic: Length?
wiley's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:26 AM

To what length would you go to be with someone you can't stay away from?

Would you date someone if you could only see them once or twice a month, if they were "the one"?

How much are you willing to give up, to be with someone who is perfect for you?

And you thought we were gonig to talk about size.....devil


For "the one" I would happily give up everything. Without even being asked.

Lily0923's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:28 AM

For "the one" I would happily give up everything. Without even being asked.


Without even being asked.... that's awesome Wiley...

and very interesting. May spark another thread???

buttons's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:29 AM
Edited by buttons on Fri 05/09/08 10:30 AM
my idea is spending as much time as possible with someone i cared for...cause they should be your best friend and then some. for that is how you become to know them for who they really are....

no photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:34 AM
In reality......distance is a hard thing.

We like to think Love overcomes all.....but deep inside we can be reluctant to approace someone due to distance and circumstances.

For me, I returned to Il recently from Pa. my life in Pa was over, and I made a commitment to return to the family home after 25 yrs away to help my brother with my aging and ailing parents.
This leaves no room for relocation again for some time.
Life dictates what length we are willing to go for "the right one".
having had "the wrong one" I'm not too sure I would go that far again just on hope.
Hey.....

but thats just me....laugh

fairycatcher31's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:36 AM
I met the love of my life on here, she lives 10.5hours away we have only seen each other a few times but we are willing to wait and see each other whenever we can because we know it is IT the thing we have been missing all our lives! The one is ALWAYS worth the wait!!!:heart:

Lily0923's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:39 AM
So from what I am seeing... and please take no offense.

It really depends on your own emotional depths. How deeply you allow yourself to feel something.

Am I off base here?

wiley's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:41 AM
Edited by wiley on Fri 05/09/08 10:41 AM

So from what I am seeing... and please take no offense.

It really depends on your own emotional depths. How deeply you allow yourself to feel something.

Am I off base here?


I don't think so. Every person loves differently I think, each in their own way, depending on their past experiences and their own sense of security/comfort level.

fairycatcher31's photo
Fri 05/09/08 10:41 AM
I dont think you are off base.
You have to be willing to open your heart to the possiblities.
If you limit yourself to someone down the street instead of someone across the country "the one" may NEVER find you!

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