Topic: A Pondering Question
whispertoascream's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:56 PM
just want to know how you would handle it.

You are seeing this guy/girl, they are great in every way you click, have a great time when the two of you are together. You do not see them often. But when you do sparks fly. But when they are not around there lack of communication really sucks. You have tried to talk to them about this and things are fine for a little while, but then fade and go back to the old way. What do you do?

Jill298's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:58 PM
move on and make him or her come to you... if they do then great, if not well then let it go. You can't force it to happen

Derekkye's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:59 PM
Edited by Derekkye on Thu 05/08/08 11:01 PM
Enjoy the moments. Their desire for the same thing will hopefully make more of them. If there isn't that desire then there seems to be love flowing in one direction.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/08/08 10:59 PM

move on and make him or her come to you... if they do then great, if not well then let it go. You can't force it to happen
drinker

jenleah32's photo
Thu 05/08/08 11:00 PM
grumble I am going through the same thing now and it sucks and to make it worse he just text me last nite and asked me if I was down for a 3some with him and his boynoway and then tonite he text me asking me if I was willing to be in one with a fem...WTF I feel like he is testing me or something or just doesn't respect me...I love him but damn...grumble

lgo's photo
Thu 05/08/08 11:00 PM
That happened to me. I call him a booty call.

forever_fifites's photo
Thu 05/08/08 11:03 PM
More or less agree with Jill298 but it depends on the other person. Is s/he a person who doesn't like to use the phone, IM or email. There are people like that. Does s/he have a real busy schedule, kids? job? 2 jobs? Time conflict - same time zone or you work when s/he is off. Lots of variables here so please don't jump to conclusions.

whispertoascream's photo
Thu 05/08/08 11:03 PM
Edited by whispertoascream on Thu 05/08/08 11:03 PM

grumble I am going through the same thing now and it sucks and to make it worse he just text me last nite and asked me if I was down for a 3some with him and his boynoway and then tonite he text me asking me if I was willing to be in one with a fem...WTF I feel like he is testing me or something or just doesn't respect me...I love him but damn...grumble


LOL he asked me for one as well. Told him I would not be comfortable seeing him all over another girl, then he asked if he could just watch me with another womennoway

robert1652's photo
Thu 05/08/08 11:04 PM

move on and make him or her come to you... if they do then great, if not well then let it go. You can't force it to happen

The lass from Morris the happening town I couldn't have said betterflowerforyou flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou flowerforyou

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 05/08/08 11:05 PM
Only you can decide if you like a hobby boyfreind and a lightswitch relationship. Ya do what turns you on. If it is not your cup of tea, get out of it. Simple.

YourLove1's photo
Thu 05/08/08 11:07 PM

just want to know how you would handle it.

You are seeing this guy/girl, they are great in every way you click, have a great time when the two of you are together. You do not see them often. But when you do sparks fly. But when they are not around there lack of communication really sucks. You have tried to talk to them about this and things are fine for a little while, but then fade and go back to the old way. What do you do?
you stuff your back pack and move in with him bigsmile

jenleah32's photo
Thu 05/08/08 11:08 PM


grumble I am going through the same thing now and it sucks and to make it worse he just text me last nite and asked me if I was down for a 3some with him and his boynoway and then tonite he text me asking me if I was willing to be in one with a fem...WTF I feel like he is testing me or something or just doesn't respect me...I love him but damn...grumble


LOL he asked me for one as well. Told him I would not be comfortable seeing him all over another girl, then he asked if he could just watch me with another womennoway
noway Are we seeing the same guy lol...noway laugh laugh laugh

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 05/08/08 11:09 PM
Threesomes I don't understand. I got two hands, one tongue, and one penis. Maybe if I had a swiss army penis or something.

jenleah32's photo
Thu 05/08/08 11:11 PM

Threesomes I don't understand. I got two hands, one tongue, and one penis. Maybe if I had a swiss army penis or something.
((((Biker)))) you are to much man for me babe...Luv ya!!:wink: drinker drinker

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 05/08/08 11:14 PM
And I don't understand women who want rough sex either. I'm not into giving spankings or pulling hair. I'm interested in getting your man in the boat and making you scream, shiver, cross your eyes , drool, and babble like an idiot. I think womens orgasms are funny.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 05/08/08 11:16 PM


Threesomes I don't understand. I got two hands, one tongue, and one penis. Maybe if I had a swiss army penis or something.
((((Biker)))) you are to much man for me babe...Luv ya!!:wink: drinker drinker
(((jen))) love ya too.