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Topic: Are you shallow, Yes? no?
mitchdamuscles's photo
Thu 09/07/06 06:18 PM
How many people are really shallow even thought they say their not? Many
people have told me that they aren't, but then they will turn around and
look at some one and say something like who could possibly date some one
like that. Just because they have buck teeth or they are over weight,
Hell I have seen it as bad as some one saying that just cause a woman
didn't look like a model, but she was really pretty. What do people here
think?

Countrygurl2wild's photo
Thu 09/07/06 06:33 PM
I think beauty is from the inside. If you don't see anything inside, no
matter how pretty the outside is, it will never be attractive if the
inside isn't.

manDii's photo
Thu 09/07/06 06:56 PM
i think everyone is shallow in their own way

gterry05's photo
Thu 09/07/06 07:27 PM
What is shallow?? Lol!!!

manDii's photo
Thu 09/07/06 07:29 PM
you....

gterry05's photo
Thu 09/07/06 07:31 PM
Am not!!! OK??? Maybe...

manDii's photo
Thu 09/07/06 07:32 PM
you are too!!! DONT LIE

mitchdamuscles's photo
Thu 09/07/06 07:41 PM
at times i am some what shallow myself

manDii's photo
Thu 09/07/06 07:43 PM
everyone is shallow in their own way.. its a normal thing.. it could be
over the smallest thing but everyone has a shallow point about
themselves

no photo
Thu 09/07/06 11:34 PM
i guess it has to do with your definition of shallow. i don't see
anything wrong with recognizing someones physical beauty and don't think
that is shallow but if you let that get in the way and allow it to
overshadow that persons heart then i think it is.

no photo
Thu 09/07/06 11:46 PM
alot of people just look at the outside of people.

Countrygurl2wild's photo
Fri 09/08/06 09:30 AM
i very much agree, and when you don't look at the inside, you never know
what your missing.

no photo
Fri 09/08/06 09:52 AM
I agree you can never judge a book by its cover that's why I treat
everyone with the up most respect. People say that I'm too soft and that
I need to get a back bone. But I don't like to miss treat a person
unless they do me wrong and then you might want to watch your back LOL
Then you can call me shallow

paterafan's photo
Fri 09/08/06 10:09 AM
NAAAHH IM NOT SHALLOW,MY PAST BOYFRIENDS WERENT LOOKERS,I WENT BY THE
PERSON THEY WERE,NOT THEIR SHELL THEY LIVE IN.I THINK MAYBE IM A LITTLE
SHALLOW TWORDS 'HOT' GUYS OR CHIKS CAUSE THEY LET IT GO TO THEIR HEADS

no photo
Fri 09/08/06 05:45 PM
I'm not. I am confident but not overly so.

lionsbrew's photo
Fri 09/08/06 05:55 PM
im shallow i guess ...i like to be attracted physically to a person im
with so yeah id probobly be considered shallow but...i do try and give
everyone the benefeit of the dought ....cause you never know someone
till you talk with that person for a prolonged period

no photo
Fri 09/08/06 07:12 PM
i don't think it is shallow to want to be with an attractive person but
if you pick the one with the looks and she doesn't have anything else
going for her over your ideal woman because she looks better, i would
call that shallow

everybody would like an attractive mate but what would you give up to
get one

lionsbrew's photo
Sat 09/09/06 12:12 PM
see i dont care how hot a woman is if im not treated proporly im out of
there...and i dont think there is anything wrong with someone who might
be plane jane but someones personality totaly says alot if i talk to a
girl and shes fun to talk to and hang out with i would probobly prefer
that cause personaly id rather be with someone whos company i enjoy
cause looks only do go so far cause i dont care who you are a
relationship soley based on sex isnt gonna last

no photo
Sat 09/09/06 12:29 PM
i wouldn't call you shallow lionsbrew. i've seen some shallow people
that you would not believe and i think the whole being shallow gets
blown out of proportion on dating sites because eventually people start
using to refer to someone that turned them down or to refer to someone
who won't reply because there isn't a picture

AuroraSmiles's photo
Sat 09/09/06 01:02 PM
If you have to be with someone only because they look a certain way. I
think that is shallow. There are plenty of beautiful people out there
that are overlooked because they don't fit a certain mold. I always
accept people the way they are first. When they prove me otherwise I'm
out. Everyone has their own opinion & that's fine. Sharing is how we
learn about others. There needs to be more than just a face or a body.
Personallity sometimes comes through more & that can make a person more
beautiful to me. The wrinkles come & the grey hairs appear weight always
going up & down. The person inside is who the person really is!

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