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Topic: do you feel
evilolive's photo
Mon 05/05/08 04:25 PM
i think your past says a lot about who you are... and why you are... so yea

myssfytz's photo
Mon 05/05/08 04:25 PM
It is important, but after you reach a certain place in your relationship.Maybe not all of it, but some, because as others said, it made you who you are today and will define part of who you will be in the future as well.

Good Luck!flowerforyou drinker

bad_girl's photo
Mon 05/05/08 04:25 PM
To a certain degree I do

boneyjoe's photo
Mon 05/05/08 04:25 PM
to a point,,,,,,,but then again,,,,it has a lot to do with your new luv,,,sometimeit's lust an not luv like u really wanted so i would make sure i could really trust this new luv,,,,,,,,maby a little more time,,,,,,,heck why am i saying all this dumb stuff,,,,,,tina,,,,your bad,,,yes i know,,u got it covered

Vegasman27's photo
Mon 05/05/08 04:26 PM
I think it's good for them to know something's so they know your a good person and not some nut. :wink:

No1sLove's photo
Mon 05/05/08 04:26 PM
It takes time for someone to learn your whole life story, if they stick around long enough, they'll learn it as needed...along with a lot of stuff that they NEVER needed. noway

itsmetina's photo
Mon 05/05/08 04:28 PM

to a point,,,,,,,but then again,,,,it has a lot to do with your new luv,,,sometimeit's lust an not luv like u really wanted so i would make sure i could really trust this new luv,,,,,,,,maby a little more time,,,,,,,heck why am i saying all this dumb stuff,,,,,,tina,,,,your bad,,,yes i know,,u got it covered
how do you think i'm bad?

EtherealEmbers's photo
Mon 05/05/08 04:31 PM
I think that if a man doesn't want to know anything about your past at all, he doesn't care to be in your future. It's a tell-tale sign for me they won't stick around. I have the past, present, and future with me in all that I am... I just know not to let the past hurt me anymore. Part of that comes from sharing it!flowerforyou

no photo
Mon 05/05/08 04:36 PM
i'm stuck with my past--but i'm chipping them away--bits by bits--smokin

auburngirl's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:10 PM
Yep...my past definately makes me who I am take it or leave it. I don't share it in grave detail with just anyone....but that said, anyone who can't deal with it.....


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no photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:15 PM


it is important for your new love interest to understand things that have happened in your past?


I think by sharing some of it gives them an idea of who you are and where you might be going in life...


Absolutely, and I think it helps to have someone you feel comfortable discussing these things with. I'm not saying you have to tell them about every time you ever ate at Arby's, but it's nice to have someone to talk about major events in your past with....

chuck366's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:17 PM



it is important for your new love interest to understand things that have happened in your past?


I think by sharing some of it gives them an idea of who you are and where you might be going in life...


Absolutely, and I think it helps to have someone you feel comfortable discussing these things with. I'm not saying you have to tell them about every time you ever ate at Arby's, but it's nice to have someone to talk about major events in your past with....


BINGO!

Godschosengirl's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:20 PM




it is important for your new love interest to understand things that have happened in your past?


I think by sharing some of it gives them an idea of who you are and where you might be going in life...


Absolutely, and I think it helps to have someone you feel comfortable discussing these things with. I'm not saying you have to tell them about every time you ever ate at Arby's, but it's nice to have someone to talk about major events in your past with....


BINGO!


was his name-o. LMBOlaugh laugh I agree

Kravynn's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:23 PM
Only if it pertains to how you treat him, and if thats the case, you probably arent over whatever it was and you should do some more healing first.

chuck366's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:24 PM





it is important for your new love interest to understand things that have happened in your past?


I think by sharing some of it gives them an idea of who you are and where you might be going in life...


Absolutely, and I think it helps to have someone you feel comfortable discussing these things with. I'm not saying you have to tell them about every time you ever ate at Arby's, but it's nice to have someone to talk about major events in your past with....


BINGO!


was his name-o. LMBOlaugh laugh I agree


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LouLou2's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:25 PM
Sure, all in due time. Part of the enjoyment of a relationship is sharing and hearing your lover's story. All the chapters don't need to come out right away. As time goes on and trust develops, I think you should share your story with the one you love...the good and the bad. The ugly can be saved for much later :smile: !

chuck366's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:31 PM
my past protects me from my future

unsure's photo
Mon 05/05/08 05:32 PM
I think some things should be shared IF you feel comfortable sharing them. BUT as far as telling how many people you have been with and who you have been with..absolutely not. Why does he want to know if you slept with one of his friends? Why do I really care who he slept with...thats his past and it should be left there!!
I do think people should share things like if you were admitted to a psycho hospital...that kind of stuff might make them want to run the other way. Things like that are important but some things are better off left in the past :wink:

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