many of us build these walls around our hearts.. keeping everyone out.. we have been hurt before, and the walls.. if we keep everyone at bay.. we can protect ourselves.. adn wont get hurt again!?!?!?!?
right1?!?!?!?!?!?!?


my thoughts on this..

has anyone ever played the computer game the Sims?
well in the one where you build themthe houses.. there is this oddthing that you can do..
you can aucutualy take one family member.. and wall them inside a box.. no windows..no doors..just a box..
this will protect them from the outside!!
it will keep them SAFE!!
will keep everything that can harm them out!!!!


but do you know what happens to this person??
they die..

to keep themselves safe from getting hurt fro the outside.. they still die!!!

jsut a thought...

Youre absolutely right izzie. Whether we let love in or block it we still die in the end. Love is a choice!

I figure I have about.....what.......30 more years left? How do I want to spend it......? Closed off or? again its all choices

I have built what I call a Bull sh!t Barrier around myself to avoid what I went through before, so I can see what your saying

id rather die inside alone than to let the wall down and die with more heartache and pain.......no way jose!!!!!!!!!

I've grown rather fond of my walls....they are a lovely brick with ivy and roses

I'm just temporarily closed for remodeling. I'll reopen as soon as the dust clears. *cough cough*

Get those walls up...faster faster!

((gyps))

((patsfan)

(((madam))
((fire))
you 2 kno you deserve better than that..
i love ya!!!

(((iz))) love you too!

Lettin my walls crumble down..got no need for them anymore

Life lessons from video games, hooray! Nicely put.

happy for you gaia...

We all do this, mostly as a way to protect ourselves from getting hurt.

What I have found is that people usually know when they have broken the wall down and wait to pull their usual crap until after they have been accepted and embraced.

So the question in my mind is do you personally let the wall down early or late in the relationship?

Still have those walls.. hopefully someday tre will be someone who cares enough to try and tear them down, until then.. they stand strong

i think im gonna cry.!!!

still dont trust it. had one who fought the fight...i believed in him as soon as the wall went down, he went bye! screw that noise!

Aww hunny Im sorry youve been hurt, we all have and it sukcs.. those walls protect us but I think they hurt us just as much.. I hope that someday youll find someone who will tear yours down and not hurt you, you deserve that, we all do

I want someone who will build an archway arbor thingy into mine. Keep me safe but not stuck inside, with a wonderful view.

Thingys take time to build, lots of planning

That's why my walled-in wall has a slot large enough for a liter of Mountain Dew and a large pizza. That way, I won't die!