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Topic: walls...
izzie's photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:09 PM
brokenheart many of us build these walls around our hearts.. keeping everyone out.. we have been hurt before,brokenheart and the walls.. if we keep everyone at bay.. we can protect ourselves.. adn wont get hurt again!?!?!?!?
right1?!?!?!?!?!?!?


my thoughts on this..

has anyone ever played the computer game the Sims?
well in the one where you build themthe houses.. there is this oddthing that you can do..
you can aucutualy take one family member.. and wall them inside a box.. no windows..no doors..just a box..
this will protect them from the outside!!
it will keep them SAFE!!
will keep everything that can harm them out!!!!


but do you know what happens to this person??
they die..

to keep themselves safe from getting hurt fro the outside.. they still die!!!

jsut a thought...
flowerforyou :heart: :heart: flowerforyou flowerforyou

no photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:20 PM
Youre absolutely right izzie. Whether we let love in or block it we still die in the end. Love is a choice!flowerforyou

no photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:21 PM
I figure I have about.....what.......30 more years left? How do I want to spend it......? Closed off or? again its all choicesbigsmile

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:23 PM
I have built what I call a Bull sh!t Barrier around myself to avoid what I went through before, so I can see what your saying:smile:

madamx7316's photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:24 PM
id rather die inside alone than to let the wall down and die with more heartache and pain.......no way jose!!!!!!!!!

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:25 PM
I've grown rather fond of my walls....they are a lovely brick with ivy and roses :wink:

No1sLove's photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:27 PM
Edited by No1sLove on Mon 05/05/08 01:19 PM
I'm just temporarily closed for remodeling. happy I'll reopen as soon as the dust clears. *cough cough*

Get those walls up...faster faster!

izzie's photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:27 PM
((gyps))

((patsfan)

(((madam))
((fire))
you 2 kno you deserve better than that..
i love ya!!!
flowerforyou :heart: smooched

madamx7316's photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:29 PM
(((iz))) love you too!

Gaia_Moonchilde's photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:31 PM
Lettin my walls crumble down..got no need for them anymore

SarahsF8's photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:32 PM
Life lessons from video games, hooray! Nicely put.

izzie's photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:32 PM

Lettin my walls crumble down..got no need for them anymore
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:
happy for you gaia...
:heart:

puckthefackers's photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:36 PM
We all do this, mostly as a way to protect ourselves from getting hurt.

What I have found is that people usually know when they have broken the wall down and wait to pull their usual crap until after they have been accepted and embraced.

So the question in my mind is do you personally let the wall down early or late in the relationship?

missy51970's photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:36 PM
Still have those walls.. hopefully someday tre will be someone who cares enough to try and tear them down, until then.. they stand strong

seahawks's photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:37 PM
i think im gonna cry.!!!laugh

madamx7316's photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:40 PM

Still have those walls.. hopefully someday tre will be someone who cares enough to try and tear them down, until then.. they stand strong
still dont trust it. had one who fought the fight...i believed in him as soon as the wall went down, he went bye! screw that noise!

missy51970's photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:43 PM


Still have those walls.. hopefully someday tre will be someone who cares enough to try and tear them down, until then.. they stand strong
still dont trust it. had one who fought the fight...i believed in him as soon as the wall went down, he went bye! screw that noise!


Aww hunny Im sorry youve been hurt, we all have and it sukcs.. those walls protect us but I think they hurt us just as much.. I hope that someday youll find someone who will tear yours down and not hurt you, you deserve that, we all do

lilith401's photo
Mon 05/05/08 12:45 PM
I want someone who will build an archway arbor thingy into mine. Keep me safe but not stuck inside, with a wonderful view.

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 05/05/08 02:14 PM

I want someone who will build an archway arbor thingy into mine. Keep me safe but not stuck inside, with a wonderful view.













Thingys take time to build, lots of planninglaugh

no photo
Mon 05/05/08 02:45 PM

brokenheart many of us build these walls around our hearts.. keeping everyone out.. we have been hurt before,brokenheart and the walls.. if we keep everyone at bay.. we can protect ourselves.. adn wont get hurt again!?!?!?!?
right1?!?!?!?!?!?!?


my thoughts on this..

has anyone ever played the computer game the Sims?
well in the one where you build themthe houses.. there is this oddthing that you can do..
you can aucutualy take one family member.. and wall them inside a box.. no windows..no doors..just a box..
this will protect them from the outside!!
it will keep them SAFE!!
will keep everything that can harm them out!!!!


but do you know what happens to this person??
they die..

to keep themselves safe from getting hurt fro the outside.. they still die!!!

jsut a thought...
flowerforyou :heart: :heart: flowerforyou flowerforyou


That's why my walled-in wall has a slot large enough for a liter of Mountain Dew and a large pizza. That way, I won't die! bigsmile

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