dated someone from a dating site and when it got serious one of you deleted their personals page but the other didn't?

How did that make you feel when you thought that you were in agreement to delet them cuz you were happy with the person u were with?

ive dated afew but never got delted or deleted them

I would say move on! if you can't trust someone to do a simple task that you are in agrement upon then what will it be like in the future.

It's when they do delete their profile and then put it back on without telling you that you should be concerned about...

If I'm dating someone who has friends online, and enjoys chatting with them on the forums,(as do I) I wouldn't ask him to delete his account...but I'd expect him to change his profile status to friends and advertise that he was taken, because not doing so WOULD hurt me tremendously.

...you should have told me that about two years ago....

Been there , done that..

Thought this man was wonderful.. was engaged to him , he bought me my dream house and all the time he was on a dating site (not this one) ... If he wanted to talk to friends thats one thing but turns out he was looking.. asshole

I would expect the same from any woman online or not just doesn't help to keep seeing others .... for anything other then friends if you are mutually committed. Of course you need to be sure it's a mutual commitment!!!!!

Well I see no reason to delete the profile but now the status should at least change. From looking for a relationship to looking for friends only.

But now I don't recommend that till they have actually meet each other face to face.

For many times you get along great but then when you actually meet the chemistry is not there as you thought it would be.

You thought you were in agreement?

Did the other person actually say they would delete their profile?

If they said something and didn’t keep their word, then clearly they don’t do what they say so you’re lucky to find that out early on, I’d drop them like a hot potato.

On the other hand, I’d want to be sure that they were actually on the same page, and that I wasn’t just assuming something. The first thing to do would be to ask that person what’s going on and decide by their answer where to go from there.

A lot of people might like to keep their profile on a site like JSH just for the platonic friends they have met. If they state in their profile that they’ve found someone, there’s really no reason they should have to leave the site. They could be just enjoying discussions in general.

I’m not even involved with anyone, yet I don’t come here to search for a mate. I just enjoy the platonic conversations with people. I don’t even think of it as a ‘dating site’ anymore.

I wouldn't even expect to ask a woman to delete her profile on JSH just because she became invloved with me.

You either trust someone or you don't. If you're not prepared to trust a partner, then you're not prepared for a relationship. It's that simple.

Yeah, I don't date men who date other women at the same time. Nope nope nope.