you where smurfin along through a dating site and found a good friends
husbands profile ,they've been married almost twenty years and she'z a
good friend, and he has listed himself as single and wants kids ,, I'm
not sure what I am going to do with this one ? ...any one have an
opinion ?

Have a talk with him first, then make your choices

some one ?/ hyper here ...I'm gonna send him an e-mail and say how you
doin honey ?? //pretty soon...advise...heLOLOLO

Do they have kids together?

ooohhh bye the way, "Hiya Purple"

wow expose the loser

hello leroy . kojack ,

yes they have three kids .

OMG that is one bad can of worms hummm maybe just when your friend is
over show her the dating site you are on and opps comes his profile WOW
for if you say somthing to him he will just come off of that one and go
to another one hummm that way it dont look like you did anything just
showing her some guys profiles that was interested in you and while your
looking for his guess who you find lol that is only a suggestion for I
really dont know what I would do. Cheating is Cheating

If it was me I'd just turn my girlfriend onto the site YOU found him on
and then un-knowingly to her,,,,lead her to his profile, and "WOW that
sounds like ,,,,,,HUH???wow,it IS!!!!
Thats an easy way out but ya let her find him,,,,LOL

ok sent ya an email purple but I now agree with Txs, that will get him
for sure

Texas is right about him bailing on this site adn going to another one
if you call him on it. Not sure what to do, he is a jerk, that is for
sure, maybe print it off to show to him and his wife. She deserves
better than that, that is for sure. Guess I am no help. You could make
a bogus profile and flirt with him and get him going and make a date to
meet him sometime down the road and bring his wife along, but he could
also make plans to meet others in the meantime, because that plan would
take some time, just a thought.

Thats really sad! I would have a talk with him in person, away from his
ole lady and maybe set him strait! There may very well be a side to
there relationship that isn't public. You just never know. Some times
people just show the side that looks good in public, hiding other isues
that run deep! Everyone has there story, not everyone tells it. If she
is your friend, go listen to what he has to say, before you make your
choices.

There are MANY men and WOMEN who play THAT game and it sooooo sucks!!!!
And the kids are the ones hurt when the poopy hits the fan!!!
But how can anyone say they LOVE the other and be cheap--ss players?

Terry is right, in the old days, this stuff all happened in the bars,
now with internet, can happen all across the country. The kids are the
losers and it is really sad. And, it is not just the men who do it,
women are just as guilty.

i do know some things , she is at this ass holes mercy he's an abusive
jerk really , well i added him to my favorites there for starters
,,easier to locate ,, I think I'm gonna **** with the morons head a bit
, she dont need to get hurt ,

This is a very difficult situation, she is a friend but if you talk to
her about it, you won't know how she will react to this and may damage
the relationship more, if it is
he may have this profile just to have some fun, and if it was me
I would talk to him about it and ask him was up?
or you can go another way and try to see what he really wants, but
anyway is a very hard thing to do...and I know it could get you upset if
you love your friend..but like I always say

man would be man!!

Sad about the kids for sure, but a little late for that one.

I would have a talk with him in person, away from his
ole lady and maybe set him strait! There may very well be a side to
there relationship that isn't public. You just never know. Some times
people just show the side that looks good in public, hiding other isues
that run deep! Everyone has there story, not everyone tells it. If she
is your friend, go listen to what he has to say, before you make your
choices.

Hummm well Leroy is right sometimes there are things that happen in a
marraige we all do not know for as anyone knows she might know what he
is doing and they may not even be sleeping in the same room or have
anything to do with each other anymore there are always two sides to a
story and only they know what they are.

Terri,has a damned good Idea.that way she finds out for herself and
there is nothing,he can say in his defense.

hEY PURPLE, if you let him know that you know,it will give him time to
cop a story up for his wife,
and if you tell her, you will break her heart,
so,,,
You could set him up and lead him onto a mystery women, (YOU)
but, that to would have him pulling off that site and calling YOU a
liar...if he thinks that you would tell his wife????