I am pretty picky on who I date, they dont have to be MR stud but there
has to be some attraction there, Honesy is a huge thing with me, I dont
lie about my looks or my size or what I am looking for. I ecpect the
same from you also.
Anyway I was talking to a guy and there was a physical attraction and we
got along great on the phone and planned to meet for coffee this Sat
night, Well he sent me another picture today and it doesnt even look
like the one he orriginally sent me, It looks like about a 10 year
difference and I did not think it was attractive at all, What do I do?

Tell him the truth.

ask him for another pic. Could of been a bad day for him when pic was
taken. i know some of my pics look different in my profile but its me...

Do what I do, drink him pretty

some shots just come out unflattering sometimes, face to face is the
only way you'll really know if its chemistry. at least meet him for the
coffee, but only for the coffee and allow yourself time in your schedule
that if you hit it off you can spend more time after the coffee, if
there is no spark all you have lost is 30 mins and $5 for coffee and
then let him know that you didn't really feel fireworks but that u were
really happy to meet him and then wish him lots of luck!

Good advice Heather.

Go for the date, who knows it may turn out to be a good time. Not likely
though - I agree.

If he turns out to be nothing like the persona he projects, call him on
it. It will be good for him in the long run.

Both side do it. Different site, talked to a lady, saw pic, she even
stated weight. Met her for coffee, walked up, a good 50-80 heavier. I
am no light weight, but we had talked about truth. Put $20.00 on table
for her coffee & gas, told her if she couldn't tell the truth about
herself, how could I believe her on anything else. Walked out, pic.
ain't right, your starting w/a lie. Opinion

maybe webcam can help, it's almost like face to the real person. and
chat till you are comfortable with each other then go for a date

go with your gut! if you feel something isn't right then trust your
instincts. he's more likely lying to you or not being straight about
something else. there are just WAY too many phony people on here.

hey i'm no phony.....lol damn heather are you and hubby ever going to
get dressed, think it could have something to do with all the
children,,,LMAO

all kidding aside shagna, like sqeeze says if doesn't feel right don't
do it. i would ask him about the difference in pics before even meeting
him. good luck