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  <------What?? This place here and ALOT,,,HELLO,,,ALOT of my friends and MYSELF in past affairs,lol BUT,, How can TWO adults, "THINK" that THEY are just perfect... THEN,,,meet, and find out that ONE,,,wants the other to just GO,,,LEAVE,,,?? I mean DAMM,,how can friendships,,,TURN so WRONG??? It can happen. Its sad. But (((T))) not all of the relations that start on internet go bad. Some fizzel out before they meet. Some are going strong and love is growing everyday. I believe it is a matter of compatibilities. Perhaps some of us dream a little too unreal in a cyber world. Then we are disappointed when we meet in real life. 
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Ladies and gentlemen, YOU have heard THIS here first by ME.....lol Dating SITES produce FAR MORE PAIN, than LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO, im NOT feeling any pains right NOW about me or MY LIFE. BUT,,Typing, then talking with them. Then meeting THEM, and have BOTH your worlds fold in-ward...... THIS is getting to be a CONSTANT, "THING" to have happen???WTF??? Let me ask ALL OF YOU... WHY? do YOU feel this happens to so many on these sites????? Because whether its intentional or not we're all presenting some image of us in online form that isn't really us. It happens. |
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What's the point in trying to bull**** someone else as my mother use to say "it will all come out in the wash"And besides I couldn't lie to save my life.Since the distance is an issue with a lot of the people here being so far away from me.I am here to chat and If something more comes it cool.
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I met 5 women in-person that I had originally met online (not from this site though)
In every case, those women fell deeply in love with me but I didn’t feel the same way about them. I had no choice but to ultimately back out of the ‘relationship’ before it got too serious. I think one of my problems was hanging around too long in the first place, but I was trying to give us a ‘chance’ which ultimately only makes thing worse when things don’t work out. I broke their hearts solely by my ultimate rejection of them (not falling in love with them). But that doesn’t mean that I didn’t care about them. It didn’t make me feel good to break their hearts. In fact, it made me feel terrible! But what can you do? You can’t pretend to have passion where there is none. That would be living a lie and that wouldn’t be right for anyone involved. After breaking the hearts of 5 women I just quit dating altogether. I don’t to continue breaking women’s hearts just because I’m “window shopping” for my mate. That’s not right. Yet, this is ultimately what people do I guess. In fact, there really doesn’t seem to be any other way to do it. How can you know whether or not you are going to fall in love with someone ahead of time? Or if they are going to fall in love with you? You can’t know! And therein lies the nemesis of human nature. Some people are lucky and just happen to find a compatible mate early on. Unfortunately that never happened for me. I would have given anything to have fallen in love with the first woman who fell in love with me. But even in hindsight I have no regrets for having backed out of that relationship because I know it wasn’t going anywhere. I’ve always prayed to have just ONE ‘green light’ relationship. By that I mean a relationship where the feelings of romantic love are two-way. Sparks are flying in both directions. I think if I could ever find that initial condition I could run with it and do great things. But thus far, I’ve never found that. It’s always been one-way. Either a woman is madly in love with me and I feel nothing for her, or I’m madly in love with a woman and she’s already married or simply not interested in me. I’ve never been in a relationship where feelings were mutual. I would give anything to experience that at least once before I die. But in truth I’m not holding out much hope. I think I have more chance of hitting the lottery to be quite honest about it. I don’t see this as being specific to online relationships though. I think it’s true in general. |
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Because whether its intentional or not we're all presenting some image of us in online form that isn't really us. It happens. You mean like someone who tried to play like they are a ladies man? |
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I met 5 women in-person that I had originally met online (not from this site though) In every case, those women fell deeply in love with me but I didn’t feel the same way about them. I had no choice but to ultimately back out of the ‘relationship’ before it got too serious. I think one of my problems was hanging around too long in the first place, but I was trying to give us a ‘chance’ which ultimately only makes thing worse when things don’t work out. I broke their hearts solely by my ultimate rejection of them (not falling in love with them). But that doesn’t mean that I didn’t care about them. It didn’t make me feel good to break their hearts. In fact, it made me feel terrible! But what can you do? You can’t pretend to have passion where there is none. That would be living a lie and that wouldn’t be right for anyone involved. After breaking the hearts of 5 women I just quit dating altogether. I don’t to continue breaking women’s hearts just because I’m “window shopping” for my mate. That’s not right. Yet, this is ultimately what people do I guess. In fact, there really doesn’t seem to be any other way to do it. How can you know whether or not you are going to fall in love with someone ahead of time? Or if they are going to fall in love with you? You can’t know! And therein lies the nemesis of human nature. Some people are lucky and just happen to find a compatible mate early on. Unfortunately that never happened for me. I would have given anything to have fallen in love with the first woman who fell in love with me. But even in hindsight I have no regrets for having backed out of that relationship because I know it wasn’t going anywhere. I’ve always prayed to have just ONE ‘green light’ relationship. By that I mean a relationship where the feelings of romantic love are two-way. Sparks are flying in both directions. I think if I could ever find that initial condition I could run with it and do great things. But thus far, I’ve never found that. It’s always been one-way. Either a woman is madly in love with me and I feel nothing for her, or I’m madly in love with a woman and she’s already married or simply not interested in me. I’ve never been in a relationship where feelings were mutual. I would give anything to experience that at least once before I die. But in truth I’m not holding out much hope. I think I have more chance of hitting the lottery to be quite honest about it. I don’t see this as being specific to online relationships though. I think it’s true in general. I was thirty by the time I found the one for me.I only regret that we didn't have enough time together. I have been guilty of taking on the guilt when a relationship doesn't work out.I worry to much about hurting peoples feelings.But it is a two way street isn't it?We can't always steer the ship.I look forward to tomorrow and the suprises it brings.If you don't take a risk you won't know where things could have gone.
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If you don't take a risk you won't know where things could have gone. Well, the problem is that I seem to be putting the women at risk rather than taking the risk myself. I’m tired of causing women heartache when all I want to do is find a partner. It’s not my intent to go around breaking women’s hearts just so I can do a little window shopping for a relationship. It’s a shame there isn’t a better way to do discover compatibility without having to actually become involved for a while. But unfortunately that seems to be the predicament we’re all in.  |
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2yrs ago I went to a get together in Canada of members of another site.Everyone was exactly like their posts and phone conversations.Unfortunately this isn't always true so I would not go to a meet expecting happily ever after even if I talked to them on the phone.I always think worse case scenario anyways.That way if the worst happens I'm prepared and if it doesn't I'm pleasantly surprised
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If you don't take a risk you won't know where things could have gone. Well, the problem is that I seem to be putting the women at risk rather than taking the risk myself. I’m tired of causing women heartache when all I want to do is find a partner. It’s not my intent to go around breaking women’s hearts just so I can do a little window shopping for a relationship. It’s a shame there isn’t a better way to do discover compatibility without having to actually become involved for a while. But unfortunately that seems to be the predicament we’re all in. I have NEVER said nor LED a lady to believe that I LOVED HER before wo ever met...BUT many here will say it ( AND YES THE BIG , WHOLE MEANING OF LIFE-LONG PARTNERS,) lol I LOVE YOU, and THEY will explain it that away,,,,their DEEP seated passions of their comitted love for the other. And then, meet them and have some sex and then say SEE-YA,,,lol I have felt love here and felt being loved here. And I have also had to pass on many of their loves for me as to what I knew I couldn't over look in them.. 
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IM4U worte I have NEVER said nor LED a lady to believe that I LOVED HER before wo ever met... I haven’t either. In fact, I never even told a woman that I love her in-person either. But I treat them with loving compassion because that’s just who I am. They probably think that because I’m so nice and friendly with them that I’m falling in love with them. I think it would be really difficult for me to fall in love with anyone I never actually met in person. I think the best I could do is say, “Well, we sure seem to be hitting it off well”. That’s about as far as I’d go before I actually met her in person. Cute wrote: Everyone was exactly like their posts and phone conversations. I’ve never had a problem with that. Every woman I met was precisely how I expected her to be. Well, that’s not entirely true. Quite a while back I did meet a few women for coffee who were drastically different from how they portrayed themselves to be (especially in physical appearance). Clearly the photos they had used were not up to date. And they may have even been lying about their age. But I didn’t become involved with those women. That was just coffee and RUN!!!! |
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I have had a few emails that where signed "love****" from guys I had just started talking to.What the heck is that suppose make me feel you are serious or do they sign every email that way?
And then there are these guys that call everybody love or sweety I do have a name ,perhaps you forgot it
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Don’t worry about it Love,
I never even sent you an email Sweety and I still love ya!  Wanna date?  I just bought a whole box of them and their fresh! Yum yum!  Have some crumpets and tea too Honey Bun.  |
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Don’t worry about it Love, I never even sent you an email Sweety and I still love ya! Wanna date? I just bought a whole box of them and their fresh! Yum yum! Have some crumpets and tea too Honey Bun. Wise guy! thought you were coming over to help me with my algebra!  A date what's that? Haven't had one of those for a while |
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Abra,,you bad boy,lol,lol
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Such a tease
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