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Topic: why do men/weman cheat
sassylea Joined Fri 05/02/08 Posts: 116	Fri 05/02/08 01:20 PM
why do you think they do

CBBRYANT Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 243	Fri 05/02/08 01:22 PM
too many reasons to list

suzyq_622 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 12	Fri 05/02/08 01:22 PM
From what I gathered from my ex.....just to see if he could. I know I know what a dumb a@# lol

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 05/02/08 01:22 PM
don't get me started

Lalani Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 43	Fri 05/02/08 01:23 PM
because they're crazy and think they can get away with it !

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Fri 05/02/08 01:23 PM
Challenge, new partner, boredom, no longer interested, quick divorce, couldn't be trusted, shot themselves in the foot and didn't think you would understand, glue, and sometimes for fun.

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Fri 05/02/08 01:24 PM
because they have no self respect

yayforchae Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 3135	Fri 05/02/08 01:25 PM
depends on the person and the scenario... in some cases people do it because they're not getting everything they're looking for from the relationship they're in (usually the case with emotional cheating) and on the other side, some people do it because they don't value the relationship they have enough to not.. but really the reason can be anywhere in between

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Fri 05/02/08 01:25 PM
why do you think they do I was in a parenting class and it stems from childhood too detailed to write here email me i send you the answer

maraskia74 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 1017	Fri 05/02/08 01:26 PM
to find what there missing ??

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Fri 05/02/08 01:27 PM
Lots of reasons. Sometimes their self esteem is so low they have to have the reinforcement of more than one. Some feel it is okay to cheat if they have problems in their current relationship. Playas consider it fair if their is monetary or some other gain to be had. Etc..... I used to say a cheater will always be a cheater but I have learned that that is not always true. Some people grow past the immaturity of cheating so not all cheaters are cheaters forever. If you meet them while cheating on their SO though and fool yourself into believing it will not happen to you then you are fooling yourself. HTH

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Fri 05/02/08 01:30 PM
Challenge, new partner, boredom, no longer interested, quick divorce, couldn't be trusted, shot themselves in the foot and didn't think you would understand, glue, and sometimes for fun. whats the glue for?

Sassier2u Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 1024	Fri 05/02/08 01:30 PM
Have no self respect or morals

cnoteblack Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 691	Fri 05/02/08 01:31 PM
because they can

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Fri 05/02/08 01:33 PM
Probably a lot of different reasons...selfishness, lust, loneliness, validation, fear of getting old and becoming unattractive. ?????Maybe?????

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Fri 05/02/08 01:35 PM
let me call my ex and ask her

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Fri 05/02/08 01:56 PM
because they are always seeking something better...as if they deserve it

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Fri 05/02/08 01:59 PM
Challenge, new partner, boredom, no longer interested, quick divorce, couldn't be trusted, shot themselves in the foot and didn't think you would understand, glue, and sometimes for fun. whats the glue for? Who knows...just coming up with dumb stuff as I think it is dumb to cheat.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 05/02/08 02:01 PM
because they can

soundedmind Joined Tue 07/10/07 Posts: 2199	Fri 05/02/08 02:01 PM
I've known someone that was in a situation where her husband totally forgot that she even existed. She hurt and she needed and he was never there. He was cheating and doing drugs. So she stepped out at once or twice. Eventually she just ended the marriage. Which she should have done from the begining I guess.