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Topic: Newly Seperated and Dating
Sluggo's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:25 PM
So what's everyone's opinion on dating someone that's newly seperated: How long would someone have to be seperated before you would start to see them?

(The next day, a week, a month or would you say screw it and see them while they were still married in a bad relationship?)

neo30's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:27 PM
About a week

cdanny47's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:28 PM
:smile: The next day if we had any since!!!!!!!!!

zanne46's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:30 PM
I was single for 3 yrs...

went on a blind date...fixed up by friends...

as the night went on found out he was seperated for 3 wks...

we lasted 6 yrs....:smile:

Cinderella75's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:31 PM
I think the next day.. I mean the decision to seperate is usually a longer process anyway..so I would say: You are darn ready to go date s/o else.

kayliz88's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:31 PM
I would wait until the divorce was final...

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:32 PM
Your choice.

zanne46's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:34 PM

I would wait until the divorce was final...


I worked, raised my sons,and went out and had fun til my divorce was final...bigsmile

Citizen_Joe's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:34 PM

So what's everyone's opinion on dating someone that's newly seperated: How long would someone have to be seperated before you would start to see them?

(The next day, a week, a month or would you say screw it and see them while they were still married in a bad relationship?)


As you're asking, you probably still have doubts. It's not really my opinion that matters, but rather, how much of your previous relationship you want to drag into your next. You're already dragging yourself into that next relationship. Isn't that bad enough? <g>

kayliz88's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:36 PM


I would wait until the divorce was final...


I worked, raised my sons,and went out and had fun til my divorce was final...bigsmile


well im speaking from...well not experience exactly but from watching my parents. My parents got divorced and both remarried...now my mom is a widow but my dad is still married...he claims he still loves my mom and has gotten seperated from his wife a couple of times and my mom tries to work it out with but he always goes back to his wife.

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:37 PM

Your choice.

zanne46's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:43 PM
Edited by zanne46 on Thu 05/01/08 11:44 PM



I would wait until the divorce was final...


I worked, raised my sons,and went out and had fun til my divorce was final...bigsmile


well im speaking from...well not experience exactly but from watching my parents. My parents got divorced and both remarried...now my mom is a widow but my dad is still married...he claims he still loves my mom and has gotten seperated from his wife a couple of times and my mom tries to work it out with but he always goes back to his wife.


my parents did that for yrs...when my brother and I were having our children..daddy wanted to come home and be part of the family..

So my mom told him..lets just be friends..daddy says.."FRIENDS"..ur my wife...

that taught me a lot..so my dad went back to the woman he has been with for yrs...they hate each other...ohwellmy parents that is.

My ex..he throws The I love You at me occationally...I tell him I'm busy ..call me tomorrow...laugh laugh he goes away...:wink:

Sluggo's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:44 PM
LMAO....love the quoting yourself Loathing (is that talking in 3rd person) laugh laugh

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:45 PM

LMAO....love the quoting yourself Loathing (is that talking in 3rd person) laugh laugh


I was agreeing with myself...so yes in a way 3rd person.smokin

kayliz88's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:46 PM




I would wait until the divorce was final...


I worked, raised my sons,and went out and had fun til my divorce was final...bigsmile


well im speaking from...well not experience exactly but from watching my parents. My parents got divorced and both remarried...now my mom is a widow but my dad is still married...he claims he still loves my mom and has gotten seperated from his wife a couple of times and my mom tries to work it out with but he always goes back to his wife.


my parents did that for yrs...when my brother and I were having our children..daddy wanted to come home and be part of the family..

So my mom told him..lets just be friends..daddy says.."FRIENDS"..ur my wife...

that taught me a lot..so my dad went back to the woman he has been with for yrs...they hate each other...ohwellmy parents that is.

My ex..he throws The I love You at me occationally...I tell him I'm busy ..call me tomorrow...laugh laugh he goes away...:wink:



Well i believe my mom still loves my dad...which is why she can never turn him away...my dad however, i think he just wants to play games...typical man.

zanne46's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:56 PM





I would wait until the divorce was final...


I worked, raised my sons,and went out and had fun til my divorce was final...bigsmile


well im speaking from...well not experience exactly but from watching my parents. My parents got divorced and both remarried...now my mom is a widow but my dad is still married...he claims he still loves my mom and has gotten seperated from his wife a couple of times and my mom tries to work it out with but he always goes back to his wife.


my parents did that for yrs...when my brother and I were having our children..daddy wanted to come home and be part of the family..

So my mom told him..lets just be friends..daddy says.."FRIENDS"..ur my wife...

that taught me a lot..so my dad went back to the woman he has been with for yrs...they hate each other...ohwellmy parents that is.

My ex..he throws The I love You at me occationally...I tell him I'm busy ..call me tomorrow...laugh laugh he goes away...:wink:



Well i believe my mom still loves my dad...which is why she can never turn him away...my dad however, i think he just wants to play games...typical man.


well in that game of so called love..my mom has lived a very lonely life...

I refuse to live her life..she so admires me for that..

I am just taking my time....I'm not in my rocker yet...laugh :wink:

I wish ur mom the best of luck...flowerforyou

and u to...flowerforyou :wink:

kayliz88's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:58 PM






I would wait until the divorce was final...


I worked, raised my sons,and went out and had fun til my divorce was final...bigsmile


well im speaking from...well not experience exactly but from watching my parents. My parents got divorced and both remarried...now my mom is a widow but my dad is still married...he claims he still loves my mom and has gotten seperated from his wife a couple of times and my mom tries to work it out with but he always goes back to his wife.


my parents did that for yrs...when my brother and I were having our children..daddy wanted to come home and be part of the family..

So my mom told him..lets just be friends..daddy says.."FRIENDS"..ur my wife...

that taught me a lot..so my dad went back to the woman he has been with for yrs...they hate each other...ohwellmy parents that is.

My ex..he throws The I love You at me occationally...I tell him I'm busy ..call me tomorrow...laugh laugh he goes away...:wink:



Well i believe my mom still loves my dad...which is why she can never turn him away...my dad however, i think he just wants to play games...typical man.


well in that game of so called love..my mom has lived a very lonely life...

I refuse to live her life..she so admires me for that..

I am just taking my time....I'm not in my rocker yet...laugh :wink:

I wish ur mom the best of luck...flowerforyou

and u to...flowerforyou :wink:



thanks.

Jtevans's photo
Thu 05/01/08 11:58 PM
i wait outside people houses until i hear the news then i make my move smokin

zanne46's photo
Fri 05/02/08 12:02 AM

i wait outside people houses until i hear the news then i make my move smokin


ur crazyyyyy...laugh :wink:

soundedmind's photo
Fri 05/02/08 12:09 AM

So what's everyone's opinion on dating someone that's newly seperated: How long would someone have to be seperated before you would start to see them?

(The next day, a week, a month or would you say screw it and see them while they were still married in a bad relationship?)



You have the same name as Ron White's dog...
LOL...

Anyway. It varies. My marriage was over way before we ever seperated... so.. I mean I guess it depends on where your heart is at the time of seperation.

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