scratch my prev comment..............your the fill in between times.......that's just as sad but hey if it works for you......

Who said anything about being intimate with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The only thing he has gotten from me was a kiss. So thank u very much.......im not just a piece of ass to him cuz in order to be that i would have to give him ass!!

wait untill its final! god may put them back together at anytime. wait till divorce is final

if you love him you can and will wait for 60 days

I've already backed off espically since I am busy preparing for finals next week. I have given him his space but he keeps coming back to me.

You must be great kisser!

if your going to get defensive and you already got your mind made up then why are you asking for are advice? are you just bored and want to hear yourself talk?

You can think what u want. Everyone else assumes im giving him a piece of ass but Im not. U dont need sex in a relationship to make it work. And i am perfectly happy the way we are. Now after the divorce is final for good and we get together then maybe but for now we are causal friends

tell him how you want to wait,if he still comes hes trying to get piece of ass even if you havent given

that kiss

Nope! I do need advice and am listening! My mind is so confused cuz i have people trying to be smart asses by saying to let the wife join in and then i have others telling me the truth and agree with them. I am trying to get out of this mess that I am in. I even moved to another state to get rid of all this but it doesnt matter. He has found me and keeps coming back and trying to get me back. I just want to be friends with him but i still have deep feelings for him that i need to let go but its hard!

i am trying to be real with you and give you good moral and valueable advice. just trying to help

ok - i'm going to try to answer straight for once.

people are attracted to other people and fall in love with each other. that is what people do. it is wonderful when it happens and it is mutual and sometimes it even does not hurt anyone else. you cared for each other and this is certainly no cause for tar and feathers. not even keel-hauling! if you or he have made mistakes (and i'm not saying you have) then that does not mean that you or he will make any more mistakes. it doesn't work like that.

but if you are having some issues with your relationship and how to proceed then, you should consider some counseling on how to handle your situation. maybe some joint counseling if he is in the process of divorce. it can help in understanding and planning for a stronger lasting relationship - if it is working out that way. good luck!

I know u are! and i appreciate that! i just wanted to clarify with u that im not just on here with this topic cuz im bored and want to hear myself talk. I really do need the advice and i know that this crap is common and just needed advice.

If you know it and openly admit you are dating a married man........I say Shame on you

I find it quite disgusting.

How come you didn't tell all the facts to start with?

What facts did i not tell up front?

you have to be strong and yes it is hard, no one said life or dealing with emotions was easy. if you tell him how you feel tell him is the key, dont try to run away by moveing tell him. if he keeps it up and dont respect why do you want. i could be he wants you for a piece of ass even if you never had given

Well thats ur opinion!!! We all have our own opinions!

I cannot believe we are having this discussion....treat others the way you want to be treated. Put yourself in his wives shoes. There are a gozillion great SINGLE guys out here.