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Topic: new relationship and phone calls
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Wed 04/30/08 08:02 AM
Is it to much to expect a phone call, text message or even email at least Once a day from someone you've estabalished a serious dating relationship with...boyfriend/girlfriend type of thing? Or if you haven't heard from the person in a few days and his/her excuse was that they were busy, but no other explaination...what would you think?

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Wed 04/30/08 08:03 AM

Is it to much to expect a phone call, text message or even email at least Once a day from someone you've estabalished a serious dating relationship with...boyfriend/girlfriend type of thing? Or if you haven't heard from the person in a few days and his/her excuse was that they were busy, but no other explaination...what would you think?
girl gave me her phone # online the other day. still have not called her. should I?

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Wed 04/30/08 08:04 AM
THEY WERE TOO BUSY................WHY PUSH THE ISSUE? noway

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Wed 04/30/08 08:04 AM
I went on a date last night and she sent me a thank you text and I called her this morning.She said she was looking forward to this weekend.This was a first date with her.So yes I think it shows you care.

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Wed 04/30/08 08:05 AM

Is it to much to expect a phone call, text message or even email at least Once a day from someone you've estabalished a serious dating relationship with...boyfriend/girlfriend type of thing? Or if you haven't heard from the person in a few days and his/her excuse was that they were busy, but no other explaination...what would you think?
I don't think so. If you're in a relationship with someone you should be able to talk to the person. I don't care who you are or how busy you are, you have 10 seconds to send a text message if you wanted to. JMO

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Wed 04/30/08 08:05 AM

I went on a date last night and she sent me a thank you text and I called her this morning.She said she was looking forward to this weekend.This was a first date with her.So yes I think it shows you care.
congrats!bigsmile

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Wed 04/30/08 08:06 AM
No it is not 2 much 2 ask nor expect when there is a serious relationship established.Hmmm!2 busy?That would leave me wondering just how serious is this SO(imo):smile: flowerforyou

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Wed 04/30/08 08:06 AM


I went on a date last night and she sent me a thank you text and I called her this morning.She said she was looking forward to this weekend.This was a first date with her.So yes I think it shows you care.
congrats!bigsmile
Thank you.She is very nice and down to earth.

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Wed 04/30/08 08:06 AM
I hate when someone calls once a day with nothing to say.mad

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Wed 04/30/08 08:06 AM



I went on a date last night and she sent me a thank you text and I called her this morning.She said she was looking forward to this weekend.This was a first date with her.So yes I think it shows you care.
congrats!bigsmile
Thank you.She is very nice and down to earth.
that's great news

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Wed 04/30/08 08:07 AM
Not too much to expect at all. Communication is key to building and establishing any sort of relationship. No matter at what level. If you are too busy to say hello or indicate in some way you are thinking about them, then you are too busy for a relationship, or possibly just too selfish.

JMO

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Wed 04/30/08 08:07 AM

I hate when someone calls once a day with nothing to say.mad
Those are called Telemarketers.laugh

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Wed 04/30/08 08:07 AM


Is it to much to expect a phone call, text message or even email at least Once a day from someone you've estabalished a serious dating relationship with...boyfriend/girlfriend type of thing? Or if you haven't heard from the person in a few days and his/her excuse was that they were busy, but no other explaination...what would you think?
I don't think so. If you're in a relationship with someone you should be able to talk to the person. I don't care who you are or how busy you are, you have 10 seconds to send a text message if you wanted to. JMO

slow typer here for texting...takes me longer than 10 seconds.......times up for me.........embarassed embarassed

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Wed 04/30/08 08:07 AM
I am seeing someone right now, tho it hasn't turned "serious" yet, I hear from him everyday. He sends me an email every morning and maybe a few more here and there if he's not to busy. I look forward to my good morning emails since I don't get to see him very much.

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Wed 04/30/08 08:08 AM


I hate when someone calls once a day with nothing to say.mad
Those are called Telemarketers.laugh


laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Wed 04/30/08 08:09 AM

Is it to much to expect a phone call, text message or even email at least Once a day from someone you've estabalished a serious dating relationship with...boyfriend/girlfriend type of thing? Or if you haven't heard from the person in a few days and his/her excuse was that they were busy, but no other explaination...what would you think?


how new is the relationship?

honestly would think that you have too much idle time on your hands (sorry) I dont think if I was busy doing things, I'd have to say more than that, so I accept that response. Some people may require more info, but I dont.

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Wed 04/30/08 08:09 AM

Is it to much to expect a phone call, text message or even email at least Once a day from someone you've estabalished a serious dating relationship with...boyfriend/girlfriend type of thing? Or if you haven't heard from the person in a few days and his/her excuse was that they were busy, but no other explaination...what would you think?
I think texts are kinda impersonal at best. If you have time to type on a phone, just call I say! But in regards to your question, I think he should have made some sort of contact by now.

Don't worry though, there is an unspoken 3 day rule at first.

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Wed 04/30/08 08:09 AM

I am seeing someone right now, tho it hasn't turned "serious" yet, I hear from him everyday. He sends me an email every morning and maybe a few more here and there if he's not to busy. I look forward to my good morning emails since I don't get to see him very much.
Good for you.And I thought we were going to get married and have twelve kids.blushing

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Wed 04/30/08 08:10 AM

I am seeing someone right now, tho it hasn't turned "serious" yet, I hear from him everyday. He sends me an email every morning and maybe a few more here and there if he's not to busy. I look forward to my good morning emails since I don't get to see him very much.

i send e-mails from time to time to a few here on jsh......but i do i have my favs to type to daily...........:wink:

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Wed 04/30/08 08:10 AM


I am seeing someone right now, tho it hasn't turned "serious" yet, I hear from him everyday. He sends me an email every morning and maybe a few more here and there if he's not to busy. I look forward to my good morning emails since I don't get to see him very much.
Good for you.And I thought we were going to get married and have twelve kids.blushing
I will throw my uterus away before I ever have 12 kidslaugh laugh

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