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Topic: General Dating
Megan_Smiles Joined Tue 04/08/08 Posts: 526	Mon 04/28/08 05:59 PM
If you go on a date with someone, and their already planning your next date...how do you tell them that you're not interested like that.

kriesybear Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 508	Mon 04/28/08 06:00 PM
By telling them

averageguy33 Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 148	Mon 04/28/08 06:01 PM
exactly, just tell them

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Mon 04/28/08 06:01 PM
Sometimes you just have to let them know, right up front: "One Step At A Time." Hard to plan a future with someone you're not even totally sure you like in the present.

Megan_Smiles Joined Tue 04/08/08 Posts: 526	Mon 04/28/08 06:01 PM
guess the answer should seem obvious, but he was really nice to me and he's a really sweet guy...

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Mon 04/28/08 06:01 PM
I had a nice time. Thank you for spending time with me. But I am not interested in a second date.

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Mon 04/28/08 06:02 PM
your nice and a really sweet guy...but no thanks...

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Mon 04/28/08 06:03 PM
you call them up before the next date, and tell them you just came from the Doc, because you have a rash on you thigh

kriesybear Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 508	Mon 04/28/08 06:05 PM
guess the answer should seem obvious, but he was really nice to me and he's a really sweet guy... Then whats the problem?

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Mon 04/28/08 06:05 PM
If it's mentioned on the date, I will have to be very forward with them. Otherwise, I'd feel obligated if I don't say a thing.

Megan_Smiles Joined Tue 04/08/08 Posts: 526	Mon 04/28/08 06:05 PM
okay...i'm starting to realize how stupid this post was...blah

romeo1975 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 7083	Mon 04/28/08 06:05 PM
your nice and a really sweet guy...but no thanks... wait that is what i hear after every first date i have.... i guess i am doomed to singleacy

Megan_Smiles Joined Tue 04/08/08 Posts: 526	Mon 04/28/08 06:07 PM
guess the answer should seem obvious, but he was really nice to me and he's a really sweet guy... Then whats the problem? I'm not atraccted to him.

romeo1975 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 7083	Mon 04/28/08 06:08 PM
okay...i'm starting to realize how stupid this post was...blah its not stupid, you just were not sure and wanted some honest answers from people who have experienced what you have

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Mon 04/28/08 06:09 PM
okay...i'm starting to realize how stupid this post was...blah It's not stupid, it's a totally valid question, and I bet a lot of people on this site (and others) have been in similar situations.

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Mon 04/28/08 06:11 PM
your nice and a really sweet guy...but no thanks... wait that is what i hear after every first date i have.... i guess i am doomed to singleacy ouch!!! sorry...

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Mon 04/28/08 06:11 PM
If you go on a date with someone, and their already planning your next date...how do you tell them that you're not interested like that. It's simple- you kick them in the nards and you tell them that you're not interested like that. Then you kick him them in the nards one more time for good measure.

romeo1975 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 7083	Mon 04/28/08 06:14 PM
your nice and a really sweet guy...but no thanks... wait that is what i hear after every first date i have.... i guess i am doomed to singleacy ouch!!! sorry... oh its ok, its just a matter of life

BlueskyJ Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 2927	Mon 04/28/08 06:18 PM
If you go on a date with someone, and their already planning your next date...how do you tell them that you're not interested like that. obvious answer...just tell him your not a match.... you can get nice anywhere...i prefer some excitement....

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Mon 04/28/08 06:20 PM
Its not a stupid question at all, we've probably all been there. I would call right away so he doesn't keep on thinking there is going to be more. Just tell him in a nice way. We already know you have a nice way with words so there won't be a problem.