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Topic: The Stare
whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Mon 04/28/08 05:39 PM
The scenario So you are sitting in the food court. You spot this attractive man/woman sitting across the court. You just can not seem to take your yes off of them. The spot you a couple of times staring, but can not seem to take your yes off of the person. The Questions How long do you stare for before it becomes creepy? When do you make your move..... if ever?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 04/28/08 05:40 PM
The scenario So you are sitting in the food court. You spot this attractive man/woman sitting across the court. You just can not seem to take your yes off of them. The spot you a couple of times staring, but can not seem to take your yes off of the person. The Questions How long do you stare for before it becomes creepy? When do you make your move..... if ever? I dont usually stare or make any move I just act normal

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Mon 04/28/08 05:41 PM
The scenario So you are sitting in the food court. You spot this attractive man/woman sitting across the court. You just can not seem to take your yes off of them. The spot you a couple of times staring, but can not seem to take your yes off of the person. The Questions How long do you stare for before it becomes creepy? When do you make your move..... if ever? I dont usually stare or make any move I just act normal

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Mon 04/28/08 05:41 PM
stop staring and stick your tongue out at them like i do.

lilbity Joined Fri 04/04/08 Posts: 405	Mon 04/28/08 05:42 PM
duno im kinda shy that way hmmm and im single wonder why ??

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Mon 04/28/08 05:42 PM
If you have to ask, its too creepy bordering on stalking. I think?

lil_bit Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1685	Mon 04/28/08 05:43 PM
In a food court???? A stare longer than 30 seconds would be creepy

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Mon 04/28/08 05:44 PM
If you have to ask, its too creepy bordering on stalking. I think? Ummm it is just a hypothetical question And if it is the first time they are seeing the person how can it be considered stalking?

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Mon 04/28/08 05:45 PM
In a food court???? A stare longer than 30 seconds would be creepy OK pick a different place. That was just the first place that came to mind.

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Mon 04/28/08 05:45 PM
my luck she would have a ring on her finger

dodger1953 Joined Wed 03/19/08 Posts: 590	Mon 04/28/08 05:45 PM
depends on what she is eating

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Mon 04/28/08 05:46 PM
depends on what she is eating Some Alpo

Dallas_AIA Joined Mon 04/28/08 Posts: 10	Mon 04/28/08 05:46 PM
Just walk by them and drop something and if he looks at you then the first contact has been made...then play it by ear if you want to small talk...Also, be sure to look for a ring...you don't want to embarrass yourself.

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Mon 04/28/08 05:47 PM
im happy if a woman looks at me for 5 seconds much less 30

bobbyblue Joined Thu 03/29/07 Posts: 510	Mon 04/28/08 05:48 PM
Some stare then pretend not to but still look. Most don't stare that long and making a move is bold and risky.

lil_bit Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1685	Mon 04/28/08 05:51 PM
In a food court???? A stare longer than 30 seconds would be creepy OK pick a different place. That was just the first place that came to mind. If you were in a different setting, say a park, or at a sit-down restaurant, or even on a bus, the 30 second stare may be provacative

Drivinmenutz Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 4290	Mon 04/28/08 05:52 PM
if i were single, i would have a rule. If i stare any longer that 5 seconds i have to go up and talk to her.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Mon 04/28/08 06:03 PM
I would try to sell her a book, and then write my phone number in it. There, I said it.

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Mon 04/28/08 06:51 PM
depends what they are staring at...maybe I have food stuck between my teeth??

Duffy Joined Sat 10/07/06 Posts: 3775	Mon 04/28/08 06:52 PM
you can watch a person all day long and you are still not breaking the law.