I think being single sucks, but being in a relationship is a lot of work. It seems like today people don't really want to work at a relationship. So many people get in an arguement and they just say "oh they don't get along." If our grandparents would have done that no one would be married.

Bottom line is either you're a happy person or you're not.

to tell you truthfully, i think at times it's better to be single because of all the drama but then there are times you just need someone, if you truly think you are happy with being with yourself then accept it then being in a relationship with someone who gives your life a living hell or heaven whichever it be you choose, it is very hard to find that someone and no one is perfect so don't let little things confuse you

Shocking lee some one brings up the age of being young has something to do with it lol.

I'm not too picky either, I'm a rather picky eater I'll admit that.

I just like saying how I felt about being single. I probably would be single for the rest of my life rather or not I'm 28 or 38 etc, I don't think it will matter to much.

We wouldn't be if that generation did as we do today
Screwed up world......

I like being single except I do miss the strength of arms around me...definitely.....sigh.....sigh...

I think of that Carrie Underwood song..."So Small"--Nothing matters like love but its on the someday list for me.

If it happens GREAT. If not, I'm going to get lots of cats...

not me i'm happy being single

In my opinion, that statement is completely wrong. As far as my situation, my outlook on life and my general state of mind changes greatly when I'm with a woman, to the point of becoming a whole new person. I am able to do things I normally would lack energy or enthusiasm for.

Happiness is different for all, for me it's found in the love of a woman.

Yes, you are so right. For all of the need's and want's we have as human's, we cannot ourselve's fill all of our heart's desire's. To have another is our nature.

Every time..EVERY SINGLE TIME I find a guy that I think it might work out with it goes wrong..I'm not even gonna try anymore..I gotta find other stuff online to do.

If you're not happy with yourself when you're single, chances are you're not going to be happy with yourself when you're with someone else.

so you just feel that's WHO you are? Well then, that's different. Some people ARE meant to be single .. not everyone wants to be with someone, but if you don't want to be single, then I don't think that's your destiny hon

i am willing to stay single until the right person comes along..i refuse to settle!!!!

Good point.

I already know I am a completely different person who is truly happy in a relationship yet completely void and empty being single, and the fact I have money and a fancy car hasn't changed that fact.

I want to be with somebody..I just don't think I'm supposed to

and that is how you end up heartbroken and picking up the pieces of your life after that person has a change of heart or whatever

Why can't you be happy on your own? Money and fancy cars don't necessarily make people happy. Single or not.

That's the problem with people today, I'm not trying to pick on you or put you down or anybody else for that matter, but the fact remains we only live on this earth so long. Why do people put other things before the things they really want? If you understand that love is the most important thing in the world, why aren't you willing to do whatever it takes to achieve it?

I'm not saying settle for someone or go out dating every person you meet, but when you say "its on my someday list" than you're denying yourself. This can go for anything in life, people are always afraid of becoming something or doing something because of the consequences of being hurt or failing or worse, and I never can understand what people think when that happens.

You live on this earth for a very short time and than it's over, and nobody ever truly lives life because they are cast down in fear from society. If Love is what you live for, than accept nothing but the truth.

It's true. I'm much happier when I have a man in my life. Someone that I have affection for, to do thing's with. To enjoy life with. This is completely normal.