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Topic: need some advice
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Sun 04/27/08 01:01 PM
I dont know what i'm doing wrong
Dating is so hard!
I have been dumped more than i like to recall!
I am dating someone now, but see things goin down the tubes
I'm just me i'm not clingy,needy or desperate.
I just cant seem to meet a genuine guy
I'm not high maintenince or anything like that
I like simple things hangin out watchin a movie

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Sun 04/27/08 01:04 PM
sweetie your just trying to hard ..
your an atractice woman and although I dont know you from what iv seen on here your a good hearted wonderful human.
if they go then they was not right for you flowerforyou

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Sun 04/27/08 01:05 PM

I dont know what i'm doing wrong
Dating is so hard!
I have been dumped more than i like to recall!
I am dating someone now, but see things goin down the tubes
I'm just me i'm not clingy,needy or desperate.
I just cant seem to meet a genuine guy
I'm not high maintenince or anything like that
I like simple things hangin out watchin a movie



i know where u r coming from..just keep truckin, hang on, the right one will come along..one day..flowerforyou flowerforyou

Etrain's photo
Sun 04/27/08 01:06 PM
you seem cool...your profiles cool...everyones crazy these daysdrinker

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Sun 04/27/08 01:07 PM
maybe its not you its them. perhaps they know what they really want and cant get it from you. try dating soleone completely opposite from the guys you date now and watch the world change

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Sun 04/27/08 01:08 PM
flowerforyou Your only 3000 clicks away from true love..........:heart:

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Sun 04/27/08 01:08 PM
ditto

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Sun 04/27/08 01:09 PM

I dont know what i'm doing wrong
Dating is so hard!
I have been dumped more than i like to recall!
I am dating someone now, but see things goin down the tubes
I'm just me i'm not clingy,needy or desperate.
I just cant seem to meet a genuine guy
I'm not high maintenince or anything like that
I like simple things hangin out watchin a movie



I think you should step back in life and just look for friends, if you search for love, or search to date people you will fail from what I have learned in life. Let love come to you, lets dating come to you, just focus on friends.

There has been plenty of times where I was in a relationship with someone and it was like women where throwing themselves at me, but the minute your single its a ghost town in the dating game.

Just take your time and relax, focus on you, your wants and wishes. Let men come to you, don't seek them out.

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Sun 04/27/08 01:09 PM
:smile: I would take you home to Mom if she were still alive and would be happy to have a beautiful women like you flowerforyou I think their is an age difference that you may not like???bigsmile bigsmile

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Sun 04/27/08 01:11 PM
Hey... I'm the poster boy for "let's just be friends" so I won't be much help. It's a nasty world out there. I've been told 'I don't have game' whatever that means and I'm 'a nice guy' (just not nice enough for them, I guess)

You just have to pull yourself up, and keep trying.

You seem really nice and I'm sure someone would appreciate a woman such as yourself.

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Sun 04/27/08 01:13 PM
I have done that, just stepped back and decided not to look for dating.

And when i completely gave up on dating thats when i met the guy im dating now but it all seems to be goin in the same direction as before.


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Sun 04/27/08 01:13 PM
Edited by briancarr on Sun 04/27/08 01:16 PM
You shouldnt change anything. This is the new dating world. Everyone is looking, and testing, but not ready to buy. Sooner, or later, someone will take the time to see the great qualities you have. Good luckflowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sun 04/27/08 01:13 PM

I dont know what i'm doing wrong
Dating is so hard!
I have been dumped more than i like to recall!
I am dating someone now, but see things goin down the tubes
I'm just me i'm not clingy,needy or desperate.
I just cant seem to meet a genuine guy
I'm not high maintenince or anything like that
I like simple things hangin out watchin a movie



Lower your standards a bit...well a lot....then maybe you and I have a chance together drinker No good advice 4 u just hang in there it will happen

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Sun 04/27/08 01:13 PM
Edited by MyrtleBeachDude on Sun 04/27/08 01:40 PM
oops double post

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Sun 04/27/08 01:14 PM
I went thru something like that just today!brokenheart I'll be fine, and so will you!:heart: It takes time, but I know there is someone out there for all of us!flowerforyou

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Sun 04/27/08 01:16 PM
I never know what to say with posts like yours. I read what you are saying and it makes me hurt inside because I know what you feel, and I have no answer. We just have to hold our heads up and keep on going. Some day when we least expect it our one and only will walk into our lives. Then the wait will be worth it.
flowerforyou

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Sun 04/27/08 01:20 PM
I used to think i was tryin too hard.
Then i just decided if i met someone and we hit it off we wld take it sdlow and just let it flow
which dosent work either..lol

I honestly dont know what guys are lookin for in a girl they date

I sooo give up on tryin to figure it all out


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Sun 04/27/08 05:06 PM

I used to think i was tryin too hard.
Then i just decided if i met someone and we hit it off we wld take it sdlow and just let it flow
which dosent work either..lol

I honestly dont know what guys are lookin for in a girl they date

I sooo give up on tryin to figure it all out




You sound like me. You just have to understand there is no figuring out a man. I read that in a book somewhere.

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Sun 04/27/08 05:08 PM

I dont know what i'm doing wrong
Dating is so hard!
I have been dumped more than i like to recall!
I am dating someone now, but see things goin down the tubes
I'm just me i'm not clingy,needy or desperate.
I just cant seem to meet a genuine guy
I'm not high maintenince or anything like that
I like simple things hangin out watchin a movie



just look at it this way...you're too good for them flowerforyou

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Sun 04/27/08 09:38 PM
thats a qustion i been asking myself im a honest and full of life i love to keep life simple.

But also it's hard because every time some one says there interested in me and talk on yahoo or what ever they have the decide to up and run with out even telling me why.

Or some say iam not in to head games and tell me im not like most women and then lead me on to some point and then say im not ready for any kind of relationship them my question is to them is why did u contact me in the first place if your not interested in knowing me and yes i was told that people who do that to me they dont deserve me and i move on.

but also all there doing is hurting them selfs and dont think what it dose to the other with out thinking.

so my point is this dont worry about it they dont derserve ya if u know in your heart who u are then thats all that matters .and one day that true person will seek you out thats what i believe any how.

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