I just want to know why some men say they are looking for a long term relationship, but then when you get to know them..all's they want is the sex part..if your not willing to jump into bed with them right away, they go else where...what's up with that??
I'm willing to live the rest of my life alone if thats all thats out there..is anyone true these days? anyone know?
Whatever happened to the old fashion dating where you get to know each other first and then get intimate? Is that gone with the wind?

i couldnt agree more with u..even if i dont sleep with them right away, i guess they get to know me and they end up figuring out i'm not for them. better i find out sooner than later..this has happen to me way too many times and i'm ok with it. i find alot of men too picky..well i got news for everyone. everyone has issues in one way shape or form and if a guy cant except me for who i am? who the hell needs em? i've given up on dating and YES ITS CHANGED..100%..i have my beautiful kids, thats all i need..

Guy are definatly to picky , at least I hope that's the reason that thay don't like me.

i used to go for sex part when it's meeting a woman instead of getting to know each other---that way back in the days being and all----but now i'm just old fashioned type which is better to get to know her before the intimate thing--

and thats how it should be..i have found and other people i know that sex too soon, screws up everything..relationships arent about just sex and seems noone sees that anymore

whatever..LOL

I think it's better that way.

....well i think part of it is a drive thing...like a male dog looking for a female in heat....we want long term...but somethung gets in the way...so i guess we need to keep it down...lol...

when your young--you don't think but as the time goes you starts to learn things
so thinking anything seriously doesn't matter at all when being young--as you gotten older and more mature it shows you've grown to think seriously


something like that------however it goes

i left my mind back in the bedroom somewhere--needing some caffeine!!!

actually i agree with you....but it goes back to what i just said also...and no self control...and i include myself in that...as much as i hate to admit it...

i understand that..i met a guy on here and he actually lives in a city to where i had planned on moving to this summer even b4 i met him..and he showed to me that he has no patience and didnt want the long distance thing, which i understand, but b4 even meeting this guy i found we r not compatible at all!! glad i found it out b4 meeting, huh? and he admits he had no patinece on when i'm moving up there, cause i'm not sure when..i'm hoping by the summer i'll be up there..its about 235miles north of here

If they leave because you're not ready to be intimate, then there's no true connection there. That connection is so hard to find, but when you do...it was so worth the wait!

Good luck with the move.

...wish you was moving closer this way...lol....you will make the right man a good women...

no i cant go that far..LOL..cant leave fla either..been here 38yrs, so..i love the beaches,weather..

another thing that REALLY irritates me with some guys..they play the "silent game" on U if they arent interested..they want it that way, so they dont have to come out and say it..thats messed up, i'm sorry..no communication..i asked one of my males friends on this and he said most dont pay attention, move on, eetc..how immature and this guy did just that and others too..i dont get it..whats wrong with coming out and saying how u feel? men have no feelings..none at all..most anyways..

huh?--what?--lol
i can understand that,kip--sometimes guys just can't find ways to say anything yet--

no i'm saying instead of coming out and saying "i'm sorry, but i dont think i'm interested" and then u never ever hear from them again..would rather have them say that, then play the G.D. silent treatment on me..gessshhhh..i wonder if any other woman has had that done to her? lol..

yeh the only words they say r 'GOODBYE' thats it..no reason, no explaination, no nothing

whatever, i dont care anymore..this is y i would like to remain single..tired of the B.S., games

i hear ya--

.....is it that or are they concerned about hurting your feelings...so its easier to avoid...i know me personally...i have stayed in a relationship i knew was going no where...cause every time i tried to leave...i would get those tears...and with tears a women can get what ever she wants from me....even after she has went out on me...those tears bring me to my knees...like i did something wrong...