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Topic: Wife pregnant
caponeog's photo
Fri 04/25/08 09:40 AM

Hmmmmmmmmm condoms do break!!!noway laugh noway
laugh

caponeog's photo
Fri 04/25/08 09:40 AM
just dont like how some men treat their women i think our women are a gift from god and we should them as suck and not workers

LAMom's photo
Fri 04/25/08 09:42 AM

any tips for a young person like me from ppl w/ kids? let me know plzdrinker


Enjoy every moment the good and the bad,,, Babies grow up so fast,,, and when they leave home,,,,,,,,, ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh goshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I hate it when they grow up,,

Congrats to you,, Laugh together, Love each other, share your thoughts,, Listen,, Really listen and most of just be happy,,, everything else will fall into place flowerforyou

caponeog's photo
Fri 04/25/08 09:42 AM

Just curious, if your wife is pregnant, why are you on this site looking for females?

How long have you been married?

Do you have a job?
im no looking for women

caponeog's photo
Fri 04/25/08 09:43 AM


any tips for a young person like me from ppl w/ kids? let me know plzdrinker


Enjoy every moment the good and the bad,,, Babies grow up so fast,,, and when they leave home,,,,,,,,, ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh goshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I hate it when they grow up,,

Congrats to you,, Laugh together, Love each other, share your thoughts,, Listen,, Really listen and most of just be happy,,, everything else will fall into place flowerforyou
thx blushing

Winx's photo
Fri 04/25/08 09:48 AM
Your wife will be moody because of her hormones and her body changes and her worries about the future. If she gets unexpectedly crabby, don't take it personal. It will happen.

Congratulations. Children are a blessing.flowerforyou

caponeog's photo
Fri 04/25/08 09:52 AM

Your wife will be moody because of her hormones and her body changes and her worries about the future. If she gets unexpectedly crabby, don't take it personal. It will happen.

Congratulations. Children are a blessing.flowerforyou
thx u drinker

RicJL's photo
Fri 04/25/08 09:54 AM
Checked out your profile...if you think your wife is beautiful now (and she certainly is) wait until she gets that special "glow"...
Be good to her, take good care of her during her pregnancy. It's something that she will always remember and that the two of you will always share as a part of the bond that holds you together.

When the baby comes, try to always remember at first what a toll childbirth has on a woman, physically. Do the best you can to help as much as possible. For example, my son was 5 days old before his mother changed his diaper for the first time. Even tho' I was working full time, I still took a couple of the feedings in the middle of the night and sat up with him when he was colicy, so that Mrs. Ric could get some much needed rest to be ready to face the day.

My reward was to come home to a happy wife and baby. Worth every minute of lost sleep, believe me!

Good luck and be sure to drop in to keep us all updated.

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 04/25/08 09:56 AM
From a womans point of view I would say try to remember that pregnancy is a choice she made too, not and illness, but that it is sometimes a bit more than either of you bargain for so being supportve and calm is appreciated. Fatigue is a big issue and if you make an effort to accomodate that you both will probbly have an easier time of it. Motherhood is her responsibility and fatherhood is yours but it is something you both can learn together and do as a united front with good communication it will go easier. Love notes are nice. Keeping photos of the happy moments will help get you across some of the not so happy ones. The best part is later the moments that are kind of gross are the ones you often laugh about later. CONGRATULATIONS You need any Grandma tips feel free to ask anytime. If I don't know I will help you look....Grandma Joy

sexxyandsingle's photo
Fri 04/25/08 10:04 AM
Congrats happy drinker happy drinker happy drinker

Brenda_Darling's photo
Fri 04/25/08 10:46 AM
set up rules for when the kid gets in trouble. it seems to work better if both parents do the same thing for every time the kid gets into trouble...and no matter how funny something is(IF ITS BAD)Like hitting some1 dont laugh till they cant see u anymore.

Winx's photo
Fri 04/25/08 11:59 AM
You might want to go to yard sales this summer to buy clothes for the baby. That will save you alot of money. They grow quickly.flowerforyou

jtip1977's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:06 PM
When my little one was born it was harder than I had imagined BUT more worth it than I ever imagined. It's a great feeling!!!! Good luck bro

lilith401's photo
Fri 04/25/08 12:09 PM
Edited by lilith401 on Fri 04/25/08 12:10 PM
Buy a book called "Common Sense Parenting". Laminate it, and carry it with you until it is memorized!

Oh, and buy a battery charger. flowerforyou

I forgot to add sleep now, while you can. It will be years until you get a solid night's sleep, either from worry or crying. Heck, you might not ever sleep well again. Do it now as much as possible!

daniel48706's photo
Fri 04/25/08 03:18 PM

you know my friend gf is pregnant too and hes like shes have to cook and clean if she wants me to stay w/ her and the baby like thats f*cuked up my wife wont have to do anything while shes pregnant and when shes not we still share the house hold chores some ppl just dont know what to do:cry:


As strage as this may sound to some, do not stop your wife from doping everything. Go with her to as many medical apointments as you can, and talk with no tonly her but with her doctor about what she should be doing and what she shouldnt.

Belive it or not, most women should be fairly active up till the day the give birth. They need this exercise to help keep the pregnancy and the child healthy.

So, do not take over all the hosuework from her and have her sit on the couch watching tv all day.

Besides, she may decide she likes that, and then what will you do when you want her to start heping out a bit more?devil

Winx's photo
Fri 04/25/08 03:32 PM
Yes, activity is important! Good point.

She must keep the muscles so she will be able to have enough stamina to take care of the child when it gets here.

I had five months bedrest when I was pregnant. It was not fun.
But...it was well worth it.happy

daniel48706's photo
Fri 04/25/08 03:47 PM

Yes, activity is important! Good point.

She must keep the muscles so she will be able to have enough stamina to take care of the child when it gets here.

I had five months bedrest when I was pregnant. It was not fun.
But...it was well worth it.happy


Not only that, but the lady has to build up specific muscle groups which will cause the birthing to go along much easier and comfortably for the mother (or so I have been told, lol).

And do not worry about having sex with her. Unles sher doctor states otherwise, continue having sex as yhou both want, until she is not comfortable with it anymore. Whata lot of people do nt realize, is that a mans semen helps to soften the uterus walls, thus making the birthing process easier, and less painful.

missy51970's photo
Fri 04/25/08 04:44 PM
Ive seen some great advise here.. Be patient with her her hormones are going wild, mood swings are gonna happen...

Also be prepared to make several trips tothe local store in the middle of the night ...2am and she wants chocolate icecream and guacamole.. guess who has to go get it ?? With a smile on your face too...

Congrats!!! Parenthood is a wonderful journey

zanne46's photo
Fri 04/25/08 08:11 PM
ur wife is beautiful...

best to u with ur pregnancy...:smile: flowerforyou

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