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Topic: Has anyone
Army_Strong's photo
Thu 04/24/08 12:52 PM
Ever had a bunch of things from an ex and then destroy them. Only to later wish you'd never done it in the first place? Or have you never thought about it again.

hippieguy24's photo
Thu 04/24/08 12:54 PM
I had a big bonfire and burned a bunch of things an ex gave me. A lot of things that had bad memories attached to them, so I may have regreted it later, but it was for the best in the end.

Native_Grl39's photo
Thu 04/24/08 12:56 PM

Ever had a bunch of things from an ex and then destroy them. Only to later wish you'd never done it in the first place? Or have you never thought about it again.



Nope I just give stuff away I don't have a need for anymore....that way it's away from me and someone else gets some use out of it.....flowerforyou drinker flowerforyou

YourLove1's photo
Thu 04/24/08 12:58 PM
no i enjoy destroying memories

Rapunzel's photo
Thu 04/24/08 01:02 PM
Edited by Rapunzel on Thu 04/24/08 01:05 PM
yes....:cry:

i tore up pictures of my ex husband


and after that ...

we made peace with one another flowerforyou

before he passed on into eternity at age 49 sad


and i wish i hadn't done it..:cry:


for the sake of our children sad


and for my own good memories ...flowerforyou



cause...


even though people divorce...:cry:

still...

there were some good times .....happy

hopefully....with most people, i think...

and happy memories, too...:heart:

if we would allow ourselves that flowerforyou

and we need to cherish those drinker :heart: drinker

and try to dispose

of bad memories





:heart: :heart: :heart:

No1sLove's photo
Thu 04/24/08 01:03 PM
I once gave a guy back everything he ever gave me. He had really really let me down though...I was pretty upset. grumble

no photo
Thu 04/24/08 01:10 PM

I once gave a guy back everything he ever gave me. He had really really let me down though...I was pretty upset. grumble
laugh laugh My ex girlfriends NEW boyfriend called me one night months after we had slit.
Tells me at 2am that I need to come and get my stuff, as SHE wanted nothing left behind of me...
AS that drive was 120 miles I told him to trash my stuff, he said NO, SHE didn't want to do that.
He then(now fighting with him at 2 am,lol)tells me HE WANTS ALL MY $HIT IN THIS BOX GONE as they reminded HER of ME,lol
I laughed and said EVERYTHING in her apartment from lamps to tv and EVERYTHING had came from ME,,,SO I said JUST START PUTTING EVERYTHING SHE HAS OUTSIDE AND I AND MY TRUCK WILL BE THERE AT FIRST LIGHT....
I went back to bed,,,,,loland
WHO KNOWS if he did od didn't do THAT?????,lol
But yea,,stuff can be a problem,,,,,lollaugh laugh :wink:

No1sLove's photo
Thu 04/24/08 01:15 PM


I once gave a guy back everything he ever gave me. He had really really let me down though...I was pretty upset. grumble
laugh laugh My ex girlfriends NEW boyfriend called me one night months after we had slit.
Tells me at 2am that I need to come and get my stuff, as SHE wanted nothing left behind of me...
AS that drive was 120 miles I told him to trash my stuff, he said NO, SHE didn't want to do that.
He then(now fighting with him at 2 am,lol)tells me HE WANTS ALL MY $HIT IN THIS BOX GONE as they reminded HER of ME,lol
I laughed and said EVERYTHING in her apartment from lamps to tv and EVERYTHING had came from ME,,,SO I said JUST START PUTTING EVERYTHING SHE HAS OUTSIDE AND I AND MY TRUCK WILL BE THERE AT FIRST LIGHT....
I went back to bed,,,,,loland
WHO KNOWS if he did od didn't do THAT?????,lol
But yea,,stuff can be a problem,,,,,lollaugh laugh :wink:
Wow! I think it's sad if someone doesn't want a memory of your time together. I regretted giving him everything back almost immediately...but I was young and acting rash out of pain and anguish. I'm sorry she was so harsh about it. flowerforyou

lilangel2's photo
Thu 04/24/08 01:46 PM
Nope. As a matter of fact I have several of my ex's things...I plan on packing them up and shipping them to him. Socks and warm clothing...he will need them to keep him warm bigsmile

QueOndeGuero's photo
Thu 04/24/08 01:47 PM
i've never been in a relationship long enough where they kept their crap at my house

Army_Strong's photo
Thu 04/24/08 01:50 PM
I burned almost all of the stuff we ever shared. Pics, notes, poetry, songs, cd's everything. Managed to get a few of the things I gave her back just to make sure nothing happened to them.

ADiamond's photo
Thu 04/24/08 02:32 PM
Edited by ADiamond on Thu 04/24/08 02:32 PM
I made sure he had everything that was his and he took things that wasn't......no reason to return.....:smile:

CleanBathroom's photo
Thu 04/24/08 02:33 PM
I left my dignity behind.

I'm okay now. I can log in here 21 hours per day in lieu of therapy.

me2g's photo
Thu 04/24/08 02:33 PM
I put it on E-bay!! laugh

no photo
Thu 04/24/08 02:33 PM

I burned almost all of the stuff we ever shared. Pics, notes, poetry, songs, cd's everything. Managed to get a few of the things I gave her back just to make sure nothing happened to them.


That's not very ECO-FRIENDLY...Better go plant a tree. flowerforyou

DebbieJT's photo
Thu 04/24/08 02:34 PM
always been given jewellry aint getting rid of that..photos have kept the happy time ones..nothing else to keep really

CleanBathroom's photo
Thu 04/24/08 02:39 PM

I burned almost all of the stuff we ever shared. Pics, notes, poetry, songs, cd's everything. Managed to get a few of the things I gave her back just to make sure nothing happened to them.


Nothing says "I've moved forward" more than a bon-fire.

Rapunzel's photo
Thu 04/24/08 02:41 PM

i've never been in a relationship long enough where they kept their crap at my house




laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Rapunzel's photo
Thu 04/24/08 02:43 PM

I left my dignity behind.

I'm okay now. I can log in here 21 hours per day in lieu of therapy.





nice one.....laugh laugh laugh



oh, so...we are your therapy!!!...noway






Rapunzel's photo
Thu 04/24/08 02:44 PM


I burned almost all of the stuff we ever shared. Pics, notes, poetry, songs, cd's everything. Managed to get a few of the things I gave her back just to make sure nothing happened to them.



Nothing says "I've moved forward" more than a bon-fire.






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