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I have friends who would drive that or further to console me...but they've been my friends for 10-20 years, and I've done it for them too. I would say that if the status of your friendship is not crystal clear...just define it a bit first before you go. You know, make sure she knows that you want to be there for her because she's such a good friend.
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I have friends who would drive that or further to console me...but they've been my friends for 10-20 years, and I've done it for them too. I would say that if the status of your friendship is not crystal clear...just define it a bit first before you go. You know, make sure she knows that you want to be there for her because she's such a good friend. |
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Is it worth driving an hour and half to talk to someone, in person about stuff. Because on the phone all they keep doing is crying about stuff. I mean there is not love feelings going on. But if I would do that, would she think I love her, or just a worried friend? If you're questioning it, then it most likely is not worth it. JMO |
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I have friends who would drive that or further to console me...but they've been my friends for 10-20 years, and I've done it for them too. I would say that if the status of your friendship is not crystal clear...just define it a bit first before you go. You know, make sure she knows that you want to be there for her because she's such a good friend. then get driving bud...it's getting late... 
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No love feelings on the phone? Do you usually get love feelings when talking on the phone with someone that you have never met? Not that I have, but I suppose that could happen. Better on the phone getting to know someone without physical hangups than at the bar with a 12 pack in ya? I was asking that because I can't imagine getting love feelings from talking to someone on the phone that I have never met. So...I didn't know if it was normal for him. Otherwise, it would be high expectations to me. |
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I have friends who would drive that or further to console me...but they've been my friends for 10-20 years, and I've done it for them too. I would say that if the status of your friendship is not crystal clear...just define it a bit first before you go. You know, make sure she knows that you want to be there for her because she's such a good friend.
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it can be confusing. specially when a lady is in such an emotional state. and not just a lady. any person in an emotional state can confuse a sincere friend with somebody who loves (in a more personal manner than friend) him/her.
People in such a state are crying out for attention and understanding, and they deserve, but we need to be very clear in stating that we are just doing it as friends, and nothing else. |
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Personally if I get to the point that Im crying, it's rock bottom. Last time I cried my 2 best friends showed up at my house because I didnt answer the phone, door, or turn on the computer for 4 days. I guess if shes open to talking she might need someone. Just the way she is, I think she will hit rock bottom. And I'm scared for her. Oh, I misunderstood. I thought that you hadn't met her before. My opinion - she needs someone to talk to. Obviously she can talk to you. Start driving........ |
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I went visted her lastnight. She was a mess and I didnt even care if I got to her house at 1:30am and had to be at work at 5. I was worried about her and it felt good to know that she was okay when I left. And didnt do anything stupid over something dumb and that would be fixed or worked on.
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I wouldn't drive an hour and a half even for sex.  ....ooo your bad, thats not what you told me,  shame shame....so the truth comes out...
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Edited by
Winx
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Wed 04/23/08 04:06 PM
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Ohh, you are sleepy, aren't you?
Do you feel better about everything now? I'm sure it meant alot to her. To: Dkroo |
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Personally if I get to the point that Im crying, it's rock bottom. Last time I cried my 2 best friends showed up at my house because I didnt answer the phone, door, or turn on the computer for 4 days. I guess if shes open to talking she might need someone. Just the way she is, I think she will hit rock bottom. And I'm scared for her. Well if you are a true friend and you can tell she is really going to hit rock bottom get your ass in your car and go see her |
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Personally if I get to the point that Im crying, it's rock bottom. Last time I cried my 2 best friends showed up at my house because I didnt answer the phone, door, or turn on the computer for 4 days. I guess if shes open to talking she might need someone. Just the way she is, I think she will hit rock bottom. And I'm scared for her. Well if you are a true friend and you can tell she is really going to hit rock bottom get your ass in your car and go see her ..if you read the thread you would know that he did.... 
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Is it worth driving an hour and half to talk to someone, in person about stuff. Because on the phone all they keep doing is crying about stuff. I mean there is not love feelings going on. But if I would do that, would she think I love her, or just a worried friend? You're being rhetorical, right? |
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