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Topic: Is it worth it?
Dkroo04 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 205	Tue 04/22/08 07:37 PM
Is it worth driving an hour and half to talk to someone, in person about stuff. Because on the phone all they keep doing is crying about stuff. I mean there is not love feelings going on. But if I would do that, would she think I love her, or just a worried friend?

Kravynn Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 1513	Tue 04/22/08 07:38 PM
Is it worth driving an hour and half to talk to someone, in person about stuff. Because on the phone all they keep doing is crying about stuff. I mean there is not love feelings going on. But if I would do that, would she think I love her, or just a worried friend? An hour and a half is a little desperate. 20-30 min maybe.

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Tue 04/22/08 07:38 PM
1.5 hours...takes that long to get across town.....go...be a friend

Dkroo04 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 205	Tue 04/22/08 07:39 PM
I'm not desperate.

SightSeer Joined Tue 10/30/07 Posts: 553	Tue 04/22/08 07:39 PM
Be a good friend and make the drive, you'll have plenty of time to come up with a good way to ask her to give you gas money.

HMontana Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 5037	Tue 04/22/08 07:39 PM
A matter of choice, I suppose. But, I think, if it's on your mind, it might be time better spent than posting on a forum and getting a wide spectrum of responses, which will confuse your situation further.

kriesybear Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 508	Tue 04/22/08 07:39 PM
If i cared for that person i would.

Tankk Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 1450	Tue 04/22/08 07:39 PM
I wouldn't drive an hour and a half even for sex.

hilyf Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 713	Tue 04/22/08 07:40 PM
If it helps her and you are good friends......everyone needs someone to lean on at times.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 04/22/08 07:40 PM
No love feelings on the phone? Do you usually get love feelings when talking on the phone with someone that you have never met?

Dkroo04 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 205	Tue 04/22/08 07:40 PM
I wouldn't drive an hour and a half even for sex. What dude this has nothing to do about sex.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 04/22/08 07:40 PM
Is it worth driving an hour and half to talk to someone, in person about stuff. Because on the phone all they keep doing is crying about stuff. I mean there is not love feelings going on. But if I would do that, would she think I love her, or just a worried friend? I would go, no hesitation, just to let her talk and see if I could try to help. The other stuff can be sorted out later.

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Tue 04/22/08 07:41 PM
life is a highway, i'd go to australia or baltimore, doesn't matter.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 04/22/08 07:42 PM
Sheesh. An hour and a half drive is nothing.

hilyf Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 713	Tue 04/22/08 07:42 PM
No love feelings on the phone? Do you usually get love feelings when talking on the phone with someone that you have never met? Not that I have, but I suppose that could happen. Better on the phone getting to know someone without physical hangups than at the bar with a 12 pack in ya?

Kravynn Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 1513	Tue 04/22/08 07:43 PM
Personally if I get to the point that Im crying, it's rock bottom. Last time I cried my 2 best friends showed up at my house because I didnt answer the phone, door, or turn on the computer for 4 days. I guess if shes open to talking she might need someone.

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Tue 04/22/08 07:44 PM
You could show her your new tatoo.

wyatt1844 Joined Sat 01/26/08 Posts: 6761	Tue 04/22/08 07:44 PM
I drive an hour just to get to work - gladly do 30 mins more for a friend.

Dkroo04 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 205	Tue 04/22/08 07:46 PM
You could show her your new tatoo. She already saw it, she went with me to get it done.

Dkroo04 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 205	Tue 04/22/08 07:46 PM
Personally if I get to the point that Im crying, it's rock bottom. Last time I cried my 2 best friends showed up at my house because I didnt answer the phone, door, or turn on the computer for 4 days. I guess if shes open to talking she might need someone. Just the way she is, I think she will hit rock bottom. And I'm scared for her.