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Topic: I fracked up
BlueEyedCowboy Joined Mon 04/14/08 Posts: 2	Mon 04/21/08 08:16 PM
Have a little self confidence! So what u told her u liked her. U didnt tell her u loved her, wanted to get married and her to bare ur children. Jus chill out and let her come to you.

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Mon 04/21/08 08:16 PM
I like you is not creepy, I love you after the first date is. Unless she is not mature enough you should hear a simple I think your alright too or something along those lines. Panic is not a good thing, calm down and be cool.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Mon 04/21/08 08:16 PM
It's not like you wrote her a big long sappy love poem after one date. Geez! But that reminds me of a story. My Uncle wrote a big long sappy love poem for my Aunt after their second date, but waited to give it to her on their first year anniversary. She fell apart when he told her when he'd written it. Isn't that sweet! Is it like that? But your deal isn't like that really.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Mon 04/21/08 08:17 PM
I GOT A REPLY!! "I enjoyed ur company. what r u doing friday evening-would u want 2 come 2 my friends art show?" Okay she's a bad speller, but... :-D :-D :-D <3 <3 <3 Very cool! Worry wart!

Messerschmitts Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 80	Mon 04/21/08 08:17 PM
I guess I've been out of it too long and need to lean these rules. Why is it so terrible to tell someone you like them? I'm confused. Awwn, I wish they were all like you ;-) I think the best explanation is the Charlie Chaplin(?) quote, "I'd never join a club that would have me as a member". I still don't get it. Ugh! Ha ha, I think a lot of girls feel like if the guy shows too much interest, it's too easy, and they lose interest. They want to feel a sense of accomplishment. If the guy appears cool and detached, the girl feels nervous, off-balance, and feels the need to compensate by working to impress the guy and get his attention. In a nutshell, reverse psychology. Ha ha, but what's the point? I understand all this theory, but when I am actually out there dating, I'm that guy who texts, "I like you". Theory and practise are very different. But she texted me back, so maybe she's more like you, and it's all good ;-) Bless everyone!

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Mon 04/21/08 08:21 PM
I guess I've been out of it too long and need to lean these rules. Why is it so terrible to tell someone you like them? I'm confused. Awwn, I wish they were all like you ;-) I think the best explanation is the Charlie Chaplin(?) quote, "I'd never join a club that would have me as a member". I still don't get it. Ugh! Ha ha, I think a lot of girls feel like if the guy shows too much interest, it's too easy, and they lose interest. They want to feel a sense of accomplishment. If the guy appears cool and detached, the girl feels nervous, off-balance, and feels the need to compensate by working to impress the guy and get his attention. In a nutshell, reverse psychology. Ha ha, but what's the point? I understand all this theory, but when I am actually out there dating, I'm that guy who texts, "I like you". Theory and practise are very different. But she texted me back, so maybe she's more like you, and it's all good ;-) Bless everyone! Well, this time the guy who texts "I like you" got liked right back. That's how it's supposed to be. Go text your girl!

Messerschmitts Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 80	Mon 04/21/08 08:22 PM
It's not like you wrote her a big long sappy love poem after one date. Geez! But that reminds me of a story. My Uncle wrote a big long sappy love poem for my Aunt after their second date, but waited to give it to her on their first year anniversary. She fell apart when he told her when he'd written it. Isn't that sweet! Is it like that? But your deal isn't like that really. Oh wow, that's the most romantic thing I've ever heard not from "the Notebook!" Great to hear stuff like that happens in real life.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Mon 04/21/08 08:30 PM Edited by No1sLove on Mon 04/21/08 08:31 PM
It's not like you wrote her a big long sappy love poem after one date. Geez! But that reminds me of a story. My Uncle wrote a big long sappy love poem for my Aunt after their second date, but waited to give it to her on their first year anniversary. She fell apart when he told her when he'd written it. Isn't that sweet! Is it like that? But your deal isn't like that really. Oh wow, that's the most romantic thing I've ever heard not from "the Notebook!" Great to hear stuff like that happens in real life. He probably had just lost it!

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Mon 04/21/08 08:32 PM
I guess I've been out of it too long and need to lean these rules. Why is it so terrible to tell someone you like them? I'm confused. i agreee....its ok to like someone....even better to lick them

ChiefPUA Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 1175	Tue 04/22/08 01:33 AM
LOL calm down and follow up with "i want to have your babies" then follow that up with "i want a divorce. you can keep the babies. but i get half your money." roleplay it off if you're that concerned.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Tue 04/22/08 01:39 AM
I wonder if creepy and desperate will work for me? I like you. Heh heh heh. A lot heh heh snork.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Tue 04/22/08 04:36 AM
I guess I've been out of it too long and need to lean these rules. Why is it so terrible to tell someone you like them? I'm confused. Awwn, I wish they were all like you ;-) I think the best explanation is the Charlie Chaplin(?) quote, "I'd never join a club that would have me as a member". I still don't get it. Ugh! Ha ha, I think a lot of girls feel like if the guy shows too much interest, it's too easy, and they lose interest. They want to feel a sense of accomplishment. If the guy appears cool and detached, the girl feels nervous, off-balance, and feels the need to compensate by working to impress the guy and get his attention. In a nutshell, reverse psychology. Ha ha, but what's the point? I understand all this theory, but when I am actually out there dating, I'm that guy who texts, "I like you". Theory and practise are very different. But she texted me back, so maybe she's more like you, and it's all good ;-) Bless everyone! the rules you quote sound suspiciously like a game..and 90% of the people on here want no game players ..so..being yourself if the best bet, I think. Stop worrying about rules.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 04/22/08 05:04 AM
I guess I've been out of it too long and need to lean these rules. Why is it so terrible to tell someone you like them? I'm confused. Awwn, I wish they were all like you ;-) I think the best explanation is the Charlie Chaplin(?) quote, "I'd never join a club that would have me as a member". I still don't get it. Ugh! Ha ha, I think a lot of girls feel like if the guy shows too much interest, it's too easy, and they lose interest. They want to feel a sense of accomplishment. If the guy appears cool and detached, the girl feels nervous, off-balance, and feels the need to compensate by working to impress the guy and get his attention. In a nutshell, reverse psychology. Ha ha, but what's the point? I understand all this theory, but when I am actually out there dating, I'm that guy who texts, "I like you". Theory and practise are very different. But she texted me back, so maybe she's more like you, and it's all good ;-) Bless everyone! the rules you quote sound suspiciously like a game..and 90% of the people on here want no game players ..so..being yourself if the best bet, I think. Stop worrying about rules. I believe you do what's in your heart and if someone is scared away by it, they weren't ready for a relationship anyway.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 04/22/08 05:07 AM
I would think "I like" you is usually established before the first date anyway, or it would never happen.

BlueskyJ Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 2927	Tue 04/22/08 10:26 AM Edited by BlueskyJ on Tue 04/22/08 10:26 AM
I GOT A REPLY!! "I enjoyed ur company. what r u doing friday evening-would u want 2 come 2 my friends art show?" Okay she's a bad speller, but... :-D :-D :-D <3 <3 <3 tell her you'll go & the two of you can practice body painting after the art show...

puckthefackers Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 1004	Tue 04/22/08 10:36 AM
Yeah you are done..

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Tue 04/22/08 11:30 AM
I met this great girl on JSH and we had our first date yesterday. Today she text-messaged me to thank me for a "great meal and conversation". I texted her back, "I like you ;-)" Damn it, I can't BELIEVE I did that!! What the frack was I thinking? You never let the girl you like her, it's all over now, I'm creepy and desperate as far as she's concerned. :-( Ugh...(I'm being half-serious). i'm sorry to laugh, but if you were on a date. then she already knows you like her and for her to act any different. Is a lie

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Wed 04/23/08 10:18 PM
I met this great girl on JSH and we had our first date yesterday. Today she text-messaged me to thank me for a "great meal and conversation". I texted her back, "I like you ;-)" Damn it, I can't BELIEVE I did that!! What the frack was I thinking? You never let the girl you like her, it's all over now, I'm creepy and desperate as far as she's concerned. :-( Ugh...(I'm being half-serious). First, you're watching way too much bsg. Secondly, you could be grateful you like who you're with. It's a bit more difficult out here, where the men are men and sheep are fast. (see also, family watchdog for my town). The last complement I paid a woman recently, was, "You know, you're almost becoming a likable person". She was too busy talking to even notice. Go figure.