Topic: Bad Boys
BigGlenn's photo
Mon 04/21/08 02:39 PM



So, if a woman can have an intelligent conversation, a good job, independent, likes to have a few cold ones, can hang with his buddies and is the bomb in bed, does she have men pretty much figured out? Or am I way offlaugh


LOL..for the average guy...nope I think you have it pretty much down to a science! :tongue: laugh laugh flowerforyou

AND, if she doesn't beat him in golf or pool, carries him home when he's drunk, wakes him up in that special way, Am I still on the right track??? I think most women already know these things....


Will you marry me?
bigsmile

lausim's photo
Mon 04/21/08 02:41 PM




So, if a woman can have an intelligent conversation, a good job, independent, likes to have a few cold ones, can hang with his buddies and is the bomb in bed, does she have men pretty much figured out? Or am I way offlaugh


LOL..for the average guy...nope I think you have it pretty much down to a science! :tongue: laugh laugh flowerforyou

AND, if she doesn't beat him in golf or pool, carries him home when he's drunk, wakes him up in that special way, Am I still on the right track??? I think most women already know these things....


Will you marry me?
bigsmile


Will you let me beat you just once in golf and pool if none of your friends are around??

AdventurousOne's photo
Mon 04/21/08 02:43 PM



So, if a woman can have an intelligent conversation, a good job, independent, likes to have a few cold ones, can hang with his buddies and is the bomb in bed, does she have men pretty much figured out? Or am I way offlaugh


LOL..for the average guy...nope I think you have it pretty much down to a science! :tongue: laugh laugh flowerforyou

AND, if she doesn't beat him in golf or pool, carries him home when he's drunk, wakes him up in that special way, Am I still on the right track??? I think most women already know these things....


LOL..hell you're just adding to a list that I don't even have!noway :tongue:

My list is a little different.. starting with most important..

Intelligent and can carry a conversation
Honest and open
great sense of humor
The "bomb" in bed as you put it
adventurous and spontanious

That right there is basically all I would need. drinker

I rarely drink so she would only have to carry me home maybe once a year (just kidding, I don;t get that drunk when and if I do drink) :tongue:

BigGlenn's photo
Mon 04/21/08 02:45 PM





So, if a woman can have an intelligent conversation, a good job, independent, likes to have a few cold ones, can hang with his buddies and is the bomb in bed, does she have men pretty much figured out? Or am I way offlaugh


LOL..for the average guy...nope I think you have it pretty much down to a science! :tongue: laugh laugh flowerforyou

AND, if she doesn't beat him in golf or pool, carries him home when he's drunk, wakes him up in that special way, Am I still on the right track??? I think most women already know these things....


Will you marry me?
bigsmile


Will you let me beat you just once in golf and pool if none of your friends are around??


Honey, I'll let ya beat me while they're there!!
I'm bigger than most of them anyway!!
flowerforyou flowerforyou

lausim's photo
Mon 04/21/08 02:47 PM
All joking aside, I think most men and women want the same things whatever their list may consist of. It's when two people that have similar lists find each other, it's a match.

BigGlenn's photo
Mon 04/21/08 02:49 PM
You brought my darts. Right babe?

lausim's photo
Mon 04/21/08 02:51 PM

You brought my darts. Right babe?

I never promised not to beat you in those, and no, I brought MY darts. Guess the marriage is off....laugh laugh laugh

AdventurousOne's photo
Mon 04/21/08 02:56 PM

All joking aside, I think most men and women want the same things whatever their list may consist of. It's when two people that have similar lists find each other, it's a match.


Agreed...to a point.

Just generals in a list is only a start. Its the actual person's definitions that will determine compatability.

Like "spntanious and adventurous". Her definition might think that means lets go for a walk at the park down the street when its not planned. When mine is more like, lets go to Rome for an Italian dinner tomorrow night! noway :tongue: laugh flowerforyou

So the key is in the details...but yes I agree, if those things match, then you have found something! drinker flowerforyou

nonchalantwendy's photo
Mon 04/21/08 02:59 PM

most girls are stupid an naive. nuff saidsmokin


We just like too be bad too sometimes.......trouble is enticing......:wink: devil bigsmile

lausim's photo
Mon 04/21/08 03:02 PM


All joking aside, I think most men and women want the same things whatever their list may consist of. It's when two people that have similar lists find each other, it's a match.


Agreed...to a point.

Just generals in a list is only a start. Its the actual person's definitions that will determine compatability.

Like "spntanious and adventurous". Her definition might think that means lets go for a walk at the park down the street when its not planned. When mine is more like, lets go to Rome for an Italian dinner tomorrow night! noway :tongue: laugh flowerforyou

So the key is in the details...but yes I agree, if those things match, then you have found something! drinker flowerforyou

I agree with that, hopefully, you would be successful finding that out during the dating process.

AdventurousOne's photo
Mon 04/21/08 03:03 PM


most girls are stupid an naive. nuff saidsmokin


We just like too be bad too sometimes.......trouble is enticing......:wink: devil bigsmile


and bail is costly! drinker :tongue: laugh laugh flowerforyou

AdventurousOne's photo
Mon 04/21/08 03:05 PM



All joking aside, I think most men and women want the same things whatever their list may consist of. It's when two people that have similar lists find each other, it's a match.


Agreed...to a point.

Just generals in a list is only a start. Its the actual person's definitions that will determine compatability.

Like "spntanious and adventurous". Her definition might think that means lets go for a walk at the park down the street when its not planned. When mine is more like, lets go to Rome for an Italian dinner tomorrow night! noway :tongue: laugh flowerforyou

So the key is in the details...but yes I agree, if those things match, then you have found something! drinker flowerforyou

I agree with that, hopefully, you would be successful finding that out during the dating process.


Oh wow!! So thats the part I forgot! I just picked the woman and got married! I KNEW I was forgetting something!!! noway :tongue: laugh flowerforyou
(just some humor, not making fun at your post) flowerforyou

nonchalantwendy's photo
Mon 04/21/08 03:06 PM



most girls are stupid an naive. nuff saidsmokin


We just like too be bad too sometimes.......trouble is enticing......:wink: devil bigsmile


and bail is costly! drinker :tongue: laugh laugh flowerforyou


I'm only going around once and damn I am gonna have me some fun!!!!:wink: devil bigsmile

lausim's photo
Mon 04/21/08 03:08 PM


Just generals in a list is only a start. Its the actual person's definitions that will determine compatability.

Like "spntanious and adventurous". Her definition might think that means lets go for a walk at the park down the street when its not planned. When mine is more like, lets go to Rome for an Italian dinner tomorrow night! noway :tongue: laugh flowerforyou

So the key is in the details...but yes I agree, if those things match, then you have found something! drinker flowerforyou

I agree with that, hopefully, you would be successful finding that out during the dating process.


Oh wow!! So thats the part I forgot! I just picked the woman and got married! I KNEW I was forgetting something!!! noway :tongue: laugh flowerforyou
(just some humor, not making fun at your post) flowerforyou

See? Something else to add to your list, sense of humor!!:wink: flowerforyou

wickedlluccy's photo
Mon 04/21/08 03:08 PM


All joking aside, I think most men and women want the same things whatever their list may consist of. It's when two people that have similar lists find each other, it's a match.


Agreed...to a point.

Just generals in a list is only a start. Its the actual person's definitions that will determine compatability.

Like "spntanious and adventurous". Her definition might think that means lets go for a walk at the park down the street when its not planned. When mine is more like, lets go to Rome for an Italian dinner tomorrow night! noway :tongue: laugh flowerforyou

So the key is in the details...but yes I agree, if those things match, then you have found something! drinker flowerforyou




FYI...lol......actually the devil is in the details, and your comment is exactaly why...perception is key and killer....


....very good observation, TY....

BlueskyJ's photo
Mon 04/21/08 03:12 PM
I think most women like something of both images good guy-bad boy.... we all have a little of both in us with tendencies toward one or the other....its just a matter of figuring out when its ok to be bad devil and when to be good :smile:

lausim's photo
Mon 04/21/08 03:14 PM

I think most women like something of both images good guy-bad boy.... we all have a little of both in us with tendencies toward one or the other....its just a matter of figuring out when its ok to be bad devil and when to be good :smile:

I guess we all want the same thing then.

AdventurousOne's photo
Mon 04/21/08 03:18 PM


See? Something else to add to your list, sense of humor!!:wink: flowerforyou



Please refer to number 3 on my list above..."great sense of humor" bigsmile

That's a MUST. That's right up there going out with a beautiful woman, to find out she has an IQ of a BOX OF ROCKS! noway explode MAJOR TURN OFF!

And notice, "looks" is NOT on my list..it never has been. It's only if she is attractive to ME thats important.

Once you've had "great" in anything, just regular doesn't cut it anymore. Just like sex, if I don;t think its going to be great, well I can actually pass it up, because have done that before and just thought afterwards "why did I even bother?".

So if its not going to be great (and that refers to many areas) then I simply won't bother with it. Some call that maturity .. I just call it being old and brainless to myself. noway :tongue: laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou

lausim's photo
Mon 04/21/08 03:22 PM
Nahh, not old. Self preservation, cause I refuse to get old:smile:

AdventurousOne's photo
Mon 04/21/08 03:23 PM


FYI...lol......actually the devil is in the details, and your comment is exactaly why...perception is key and killer....

....very good observation, TY....


You are welcome. Just don't be as "picky" as I am however. I think maybe I have doomed myself in the level of compatability I search for.

(get ready, this is actually coming from a MAN'S perspective) I'm looking for the fairy tale. That love that nothing can break. The commitment between a couple that no one can come between. The trust that is never broken.

OK, there goes any chance of me having a "bad boy" image around here huh??? noway noway :tongue: laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou