Topic: Back at the starting line...
MikkiB's photo
Sat 04/19/08 03:10 PM
It seems like everyone I talk to has or is going through the process of starting over at a point in our lives where we expected to be over the hump as relationships go. Anybody else totally confused as to why this is so weird? If you've got it figured out...please give me some advice. If you're confused too, please voice your concerns. I am trying everything people suggest but I just do know how to get back in the game...please reply...Thanks!flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 04/19/08 03:11 PM
flowerforyou Im going to achieve my destinyflowerforyou in this lifetimeflowerforyou I can feel itflowerforyou

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Sat 04/19/08 03:12 PM
I understand.... I had no idea years ago that my life would be like this today. I have no advice, though....... It sure seems harder now!! flowerforyou

Jill298's photo
Sat 04/19/08 03:14 PM

flowerforyou Im going to achieve my destinyflowerforyou in this lifetimeflowerforyou I can feel itflowerforyou
laugh you're intimate encounter is coming soonlaugh

CleanBathroom's photo
Sat 04/19/08 03:15 PM
Enjoy the ride. Life is cyclical.

If you didn't end up where you are now, you never would have gotten the chance to meet me. explode

shoesmonkey's photo
Sat 04/19/08 03:16 PM
When you are looking everybody pick's up on it. You LOOK desperate. People tend to shy away from you because you seem needy. Human nature I guess. Everybody want's a person with confidence and strength. Go under the radar. Stop looking so hard and have fun with ppl around you right now.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 04/19/08 03:16 PM


flowerforyou Im going to achieve my destinyflowerforyou in this lifetimeflowerforyou I can feel itflowerforyou
laugh you're intimate encounter is coming soonlaugh
:tongue:

LIJOMA's photo
Sat 04/19/08 03:16 PM
flowerforyou

shoesmonkey's photo
Sat 04/19/08 03:16 PM
Or, go on a crappy date! That'll fix thing's for ya lol.

MikkiB's photo
Sat 04/19/08 03:20 PM
At 18 I never thought this would be my reality at 38. I have spent some time getting to know myself again but just don't seem to fit in the single world today. I'm not complaining about my life...I just realize alot of people are in the same situation I am in and most seem to think they are the only one...it seems like are just trying to pretend they understand how it works instead of speaking up and voicing the concerns a few of us are trying to own up to...I admit it...I don't have it all figured out and men really confuse me. But, I know we confuse them too...

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Sat 04/19/08 03:21 PM

It seems like everyone I talk to has or is going through the process of starting over at a point in our lives where we expected to be over the hump as relationships go. Anybody else totally confused as to why this is so weird? If you've got it figured out...please give me some advice. If you're confused too, please voice your concerns. I am trying everything people suggest but I just do know how to get back in the game...please reply...Thanks!flowerforyou

I realized that I had a pattern of picking guys who were not good for me. Sometimes it is better to just be alone. Maybe Go out with friends or make new ones. Is there really a reason to rush into a relationship.
Right now I am too busy to be in a relationship. Just wouldn't be fair to start something when I have no time.

shoesmonkey's photo
Sat 04/19/08 03:36 PM
Yeah, I have a habit of jumping in with both feet. I need to cut that out! Relax, chill, take it easy and learn to have fun.

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Sat 04/19/08 03:36 PM

I understand.... I had no idea years ago that my life would be like this today. I have no advice, though....... It sure seems harder now!! flowerforyou

it does get tougher as we get older.............trying to adjust, that's hard also..........grumble grumble

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Sat 04/19/08 03:41 PM

Yeah, I have a habit of jumping in with both feet. I need to cut that out! Relax, chill, take it easy and learn to have fun.

try jumping in with 1 foot....easier to bounce back............bigsmile bigsmile

tim20721's photo
Sat 04/19/08 03:43 PM

At 18 I never thought this would be my reality at 38. I have spent some time getting to know myself again but just don't seem to fit in the single world today. I'm not complaining about my life...I just realize alot of people are in the same situation I am in and most seem to think they are the only one...it seems like are just trying to pretend they understand how it works instead of speaking up and voicing the concerns a few of us are trying to own up to...I admit it...I don't have it all figured out and men really confuse me. But, I know we confuse them too...


Yea it was easier when I was 18...Hit 'em with a club and drag 'em back to the cave:wink: