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Topic: Naughty or Nice? Or gooy center?
jb3007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 100	Sat 04/19/08 02:12 PM Edited by jb3007 on Sat 04/19/08 02:12 PM
Is it better to be a bad boy? Watches sports, drinks beer, and just come across as an asshole? Is it better to be a nice guy? Hold doors, Easy going, sensitive? Or a guy who in public is such an asshole but at home the perfect gentlemen? Whats acceptable and whats not and why do women put up with those types? LETS DISCUSS...

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 04/19/08 02:13 PM
Its better to just be yourself Why play a role? That is so outdated

jb3007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 100	Sat 04/19/08 02:15 PM
well it's not so much playing a role it;s just what is it that women want more? At a younger age they want a bad ass then they get older and they want a nice guy. So What I was wondering which is the most popular role?

crazy_lover Joined Tue 03/18/08 Posts: 444	Sat 04/19/08 02:16 PM
just be himself....

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Sat 04/19/08 02:16 PM
I keep a handy dandy old post in my docs for such threads, as they appear often. This post is not referring to you, but rather goes towards generalities of such discussions. Here is my stance, and a summary of these type threads: 1. If a guy isn't into a girl, he says he is not looking for a relationship. 2. If a girl isn't that into a guy, she says he is too nice. 3. Nice doesn't really mean nice. 4. All men and women are different, not to be lumped together. 5. If you keep meeting the same types of girls and guys.... it's not them, it's YOU

Sexyklp4U Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 3377	Sat 04/19/08 02:17 PM
Its better to just be yourself Why play a role? That is so outdated agreed

jb3007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 100	Sat 04/19/08 02:18 PM
I keep a handy dandy old post in my docs for such threads, as they appear often. This post is not referring to you, but rather goes towards generalities of such discussions. Here is my stance, and a summary of these type threads: 1. If a guy isn't into a girl, he says he is not looking for a relationship. 2. If a girl isn't that into a guy, she says he is too nice. 3. Nice doesn't really mean nice. 4. All men and women are different, not to be lumped together. 5. If you keep meeting the same types of girls and guys.... it's not them, it's YOU Ok that last one seems something to work on If I'm meeting girls who say "I wish their were more men like you" then you venter after them and they say no thanks how is it me?

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sat 04/19/08 02:18 PM
I keep a handy dandy old post in my docs for such threads, as they appear often. This post is not referring to you, but rather goes towards generalities of such discussions. Here is my stance, and a summary of these type threads: 1. If a guy isn't into a girl, he says he is not looking for a relationship. 2. If a girl isn't that into a guy, she says he is too nice. 3. Nice doesn't really mean nice. 4. All men and women are different, not to be lumped together. 5. If you keep meeting the same types of girls and guys.... it's not them, it's YOU

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 04/19/08 02:18 PM
well it's not so much playing a role it;s just what is it that women want more? At a younger age they want a bad ass then they get older and they want a nice guy. So What I was wondering which is the most popular role? Women want the same things men want. they are just as different in their desires as men

crazysillygirl Joined Mon 01/29/07 Posts: 4869	Sat 04/19/08 02:20 PM
if you just wanna be an asshole...remember we can always be a *****!!!!.....BAM

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Sat 04/19/08 02:20 PM
Is it better to be a bad boy? Watches sports, drinks beer, and just come across as an asshole? Is it better to be a nice guy? Hold doors, Easy going, sensitive? Or a guy who in public is such an asshole but at home the perfect gentlemen? Whats acceptable and whats not and why do women put up with those types? LETS DISCUSS... You remind me of the old Seinfeld quote: "NEWMAN!" I, on the other hand, am a shorter Kramer.

jb3007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 100	Sat 04/19/08 02:20 PM
You know I go for the same type of girls over and over. Now I am a bit more picky so I don;t fall into that group of women again. I can;t seem to find someone descent

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Sat 04/19/08 02:21 PM
Its better to just be yourself Why play a role? That is so outdated If you suck though, you gotta' mitigate somehow. Try putting up a profile on-line.

jb3007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 100	Sat 04/19/08 02:21 PM
Is it better to be a bad boy? Watches sports, drinks beer, and just come across as an asshole? Is it better to be a nice guy? Hold doors, Easy going, sensitive? Or a guy who in public is such an asshole but at home the perfect gentlemen? Whats acceptable and whats not and why do women put up with those types? LETS DISCUSS... You remind me of the old Seinfeld quote: "NEWMAN!" I, on the other hand, am a shorter Kramer. Yeah people say that but with my hair pulled back and my personality I'm more like Kastanzia

krazykitty323 Joined Sun 03/09/08 Posts: 1083	Sat 04/19/08 02:21 PM
Is it better to be a bad boy? Watches sports, drinks beer, and just come across as an asshole? Is it better to be a nice guy? Hold doors, Easy going, sensitive? Or a guy who in public is such an asshole but at home the perfect gentlemen? Whats acceptable and whats not and why do women put up with those types? Its always better to be a nice guy LETS DISCUSS...

jb3007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 100	Sat 04/19/08 02:24 PM
See I'm a nice guy at least I think I am I get a lot of great compliments on my behavior, However I also come across as an asshole well cause I don't like to put up with bull****. I'm very picky cause well I'm ready to settle down and I'm not going to settle for just anything I want "my idea of perfect" but am I being too picky?

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Sat 04/19/08 02:25 PM
Ok that last one seems something to work on If I'm meeting girls who say "I wish their were more men like you" then you venter after them and they say no thanks how is it me? I'd say you might have the "friend factor". That speaks to how you present yourself. Usually, it relates to confidence, sexuality, and assertiveness. IMO

jb3007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 100	Sat 04/19/08 02:27 PM
I'm very confident, Sexual factor I don;t have to worry about not to toot my own horn but toot toot. J/k assertiveness yeah I'm not that. I don;t pursue to much.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 04/19/08 02:30 PM
See I'm a nice guy at least I think I am I get a lot of great compliments on my behavior, However I also come across as an asshole well cause I don't like to put up with bull****. I'm very picky cause well I'm ready to settle down and I'm not going to settle for just anything I want "my idea of perfect" but am I being too picky? How can you possibly be too picky when it comes to someone you will spend the rest of your life with? Then again there's picky and unrealistic. Nobody's perfect.

jb3007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 100	Sat 04/19/08 02:31 PM
See I'm a nice guy at least I think I am I get a lot of great compliments on my behavior, However I also come across as an asshole well cause I don't like to put up with bull****. I'm very picky cause well I'm ready to settle down and I'm not going to settle for just anything I want "my idea of perfect" but am I being too picky? How can you possibly be too picky when it comes to someone you will spend the rest of your life with? Then again there's picky and unrealistic. Nobody's perfect. True to a point no one is perfect, but they can be perfect in your eyes.