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| Topic: Naughty or Nice? Or gooy center? | |
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See I'm a nice guy at least I think I am I get a lot of great compliments on my behavior, However I also come across as an asshole well cause I don't like to put up with bull****. I'm very picky cause well I'm ready to settle down and I'm not going to settle for just anything I want "my idea of perfect" but am I being too picky? 
True to a point no one is perfect, but they can be perfect in your eyes.  it's all a matter of finding that one person who thinks your howling in the shower is cute? Is that what you're saying?
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I just love women who are b*tches. I can't get enough of them.
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Edited by
jb3007
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Sat 04/19/08 02:36 PM
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See I'm a nice guy at least I think I am I get a lot of great compliments on my behavior, However I also come across as an asshole well cause I don't like to put up with bull****. I'm very picky cause well I'm ready to settle down and I'm not going to settle for just anything I want "my idea of perfect" but am I being too picky?
True to a point no one is perfect, but they can be perfect in your eyes. it's all a matter of finding that one person who thinks your howling in the shower is cute? Is that what you're saying?
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I just love women who are b*tches. I can't get enough of them.
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Well I for one don't like assholes so...UMMMMMMMM anything BUT for me!!!!!!!!!!
 
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I just love women who are b*tches. I can't get enough of them.
I'm the King of the World!!
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I just love women who are b*tches. I can't get enough of them.
I'm the King of the World!!
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Edited by
BlueskyJ
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Sat 04/19/08 03:25 PM
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See I'm a nice guy at least I think I am I get a lot of great compliments on my behavior, However I also come across as an asshole well cause I don't like to put up with bull****. I'm very picky cause well I'm ready to settle down and I'm not going to settle for just anything I want "my idea of perfect" but am I being too picky?
True to a point no one is perfect, but they can be perfect in your eyes. Whatever your idea of perfect, it goes for you too....eventually we want to love a person, not an idea of a person....the reality is relationships need to be watered to grow....Are you willing to put forth the effort? 
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Just be yourself can't hurt now can it
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Is it better to be a bad boy? Watches sports, drinks beer, and just come across as an asshole? Is it better to be a nice guy? Hold doors, Easy going, sensitive? Or a guy who in public is such an asshole but at home the perfect gentlemen? Whats acceptable and whats not and why do women put up with those types? LETS DISCUSS... Why can't you be a little of both without the asshole part?!?!
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Is it better to be a bad boy? Watches sports, drinks beer, and just come across as an asshole? Is it better to be a nice guy? Hold doors, Easy going, sensitive? Or a guy who in public is such an asshole but at home the perfect gentlemen? Whats acceptable and whats not and why do women put up with those types? LETS DISCUSS... Why can't you be a little of both without the asshole part?!?!
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What I hear all the time is "You're the first guy who ever really took the time to listen to me and care about what I have to say." I don't see that as being nice; it's more just a sort of overall interest in people, their lives, and their perspectives.
Inevitably, though, shortly thereafter, she hauls out the steering wheel and says, "Let's just attach this to you and we can get started on our relationship," which translates to "I am going to domesticate you now." Uh, no. There's nice and then there's doormat. I've known a lot of people who can't tell the difference. I figure you just have to be who you are; if people don't like it, then they weren't going to do you any good anyway. Pretending to be someone/something you're not, would just prolong the mirage....sooner or later, it would come out. |
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You tell'm LEXY!!!!
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Nicely put. (applauds with whistles)
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Edited by
BlueskyJ
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Sun 04/20/08 08:32 AM
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Crispy on the outside, gooey on the inside...
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ok, yes be yourself. But the only problem is most guys naturally try to hard to impress a woman or gain her approval. You will never win her attraction by being nice. Attraction derives from animal instincts and isn't controlled through nice gestures and speach. So yea, be yourself, but for the nice guys, stop being so darned concerned about what she thinks. Be yourself no matter what. In fact it is better for you not to even be concerned about whether or not she likes you. And oh yea, another classic bad move... Women are very sublte with their signals. You have to read into their actions and bodylanguage as well as what they say. When you interpret a signal that implies her interest in you don't necessarily jump all over it. TAKE YOUR TIME.
Ok, so yeah, i guess my answer to all this is be a little of all of the above. Just don't get carried away with any part of it. This includes the whole affectionate/nice part. Gotta stay a little well rounded bros. |
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can i have a combination of both please....lol
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I'm sort of a weird cross between total maniac and hopeless romantic, whats that make me?
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Edited by
wickedlluccy
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Mon 04/21/08 03:18 PM
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Is it better to be a bad boy? Watches sports, drinks beer, and just come across as an asshole? just a little 
Is it better to be a nice guy? Hold doors, Easy going, sensitive? just a little
Or a guy who in public is such an asshole but at home the perfect gentlemen? never if you wanta get lucky
Whats acceptable and whats not and why do women put up with those types? desperation and damage from childhood trauma 
LETS DISCUSS... ...well thats my contribution take it or leave it..... 
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