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Topic: to all you folks that b*tch about 'no reply' emails
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Sun 04/20/08 02:31 PM


Ok,Ok. Perhaps he was trying to save face and felt like a fool for emailing a woman that wasn't interested. Even embarrassed perhaps. At least it was only one email and not a thousand.

In Lily's case, the guy approached her three times and three times she declined. This guy only approached you twice and only one of those times was to induce conversation.

What constitutes right or wrong here. A guy replies back to you when you didn't think he should have. Let's just say it was for the sole purpose of getting the last word in. Perhaps you do know where this guy is coming from? I mean a thread was started, to basically make yourself feel better or something. To justify how you felt about the whole thing or something. In the mean time, that guy got slammed the whole way for no real good reason.



lily's ordeal, the guy was persistant, once i told him thanks but not interestd, he really shouldn't have replied back, even for the sake of conversation, not interested, simply means not interested.

i made this thread for all those that have been complaining about never getting a reply, there ARE reasons for not replying to an email, this would be ONE example of a reason...i did not post this thread to specifically rag on the guy that emailed me back, if you don't see that, that's your problem, no one else's

however, like all the threads on the forum here, this is MY opinion, and you can see by all those that understood, im not alone in this opinion, so, not only are you entitled to YOUR opinion, but i refuse to degrade or attack you for it, therefore, i'd expect the same curtosy, thank you

I understand.

My apologies, It wasn't my intentions to degrade or attack you by no means. I apologize if I came across that way. I suppose I'm not far beyond silly behavior myself and tend to get a little carried away over little things as well.

Take care,
T

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