Why is it that when you send an email to a guy just because you found their profile amusing, interesting etc, and they posted they are just looking for friendship that you get a return email saying "we don't match". Match what? If you are looking for something more than friendship say so. That way some of us are not wasting our time trying to strike up a friendship.

You get a response? You're already doing way better than I ever did....

Wow...that's kind of cold. But I have to applaude you for putting yourself out there hun...you have hootzpah and some man is going to respect that. Keep your chin up dear...we are all behind you!

I have emailed just to say hi because I thought their profiles were interesting and never got an answer either. That is just rude.

lol it happens all the time... I agree with you tho, it's doesn't make much sense.
One time I was in a bar (shocking I know) and there was this guy sittin there all by himself lookin bored all night. So me and all my friends were going up to the bar do a shot and I asked him if he would like a shot with us... He said "I'm not lookin for anything right now, sorry you're not my type"
I guess if you're type isn't someone trying to offer you a shot while you looked bored than more power to you

it may be rude answering and email in that way, that's why is better to make an upfront profile, so people don't even bother sending an email in the first place.
for instance mine, i don't have a problem with that
nobody sends me emails, just the indispensable people
they know who they are. I love you my indispensable people.

Thank you all for your replies, at least I'm not ALONE
SOOO PLEASE SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY