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Topic: how do you break off a relationship
nurjoyce's photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:35 PM
that is going nowhere, but you have some feelings for that person and i guess feel some sort of comfort-?

no photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:37 PM
Edited by kendrab90 on Fri 04/18/08 05:37 PM
i look him straight in the eyes and tell him i have to go see my nephew and niece.... you never knew i had a nephew and niece did you? yep i use to be uncle larry until last year .... works for me laugh laugh laugh

celtic_kitten's photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:37 PM
comfort isn't enough to make the relationship work noway need more than that... i just ended a situation by being honest with him and telling him there was just something missing when we were together

jonny63's photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:38 PM
Edited by jonny63 on Fri 04/18/08 05:40 PM
You don't.
Sorry but that was the first thing that came to mind.
flowerforyou

Figure out a way to spice it up or something.

ADiamond's photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:38 PM
Say, what you wrote....being honest is the best policy and you keep a friend.....flowerforyou

irad8you's photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:38 PM

i look him straight in the eyes and tell him i have to go see my nephew and niece.... you never knew i had a nephew and niece did you? yep i use to be uncle larry until last year .... works for me laugh laugh laugh
hi larry want to go out laugh

nurjoyce's photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:38 PM

comfort isn't enough to make the relationship work noway need more than that... i just ended a situation by being honest with him and telling him there was just something missing when we were together


i tell him that, he saids it will be different, it never is

Brenda_Darling's photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:39 PM
That i just dont think we're going anywhere

no photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:39 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh sure why not?laugh

Totage's photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:39 PM

that is going nowhere, but you have some feelings for that person and i guess feel some sort of comfort-?


Say goodbye flowerforyou

bastet126's photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:39 PM
Edited by bastet126 on Fri 04/18/08 05:40 PM
don't ever expect change...rarely does it ever happen. flowerforyou

celtic_kitten's photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:40 PM


comfort isn't enough to make the relationship work noway need more than that... i just ended a situation by being honest with him and telling him there was just something missing when we were together


i tell him that, he saids it will be different, it never is


no it won't... if something is missing its never gonna develop... you can grow to accept people and their quirky habits etc... but you can't make something out of nothing... comfort is just comfort... its not enough to base a relationship or your life on

AdventurousOne's photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:40 PM

that is going nowhere, but you have some feelings for that person and i guess feel some sort of comfort-?


Do BOTH of you a favor, just let him know how you feel and you don't have those feelings needed for a LTR.

Don't keep him stinging along...not really fair. Now that's IF he has those feelings for you and is looking for a true LTR. So it's your call since it's your situation. flowerforyou

Redsoxfan1's photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:41 PM
all I can think of is, just tell them you have feelings for them, but it isn't working out for you, then ask if you could stay friends. that way, they are still in your life, but not romantically:heart: flowerforyou

bgeorge's photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:41 PM
are you sure you don't just feel sorry for them??? just be honest

rodfcutler's photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:45 PM
Lieing never gets anyone anywhere,unless one has no moral values and no consciousness.noway
Truth is always the best,no matter who it hurts.

missterious's photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:50 PM
do it real easy,and gentle and dont back down.

Sassier2u's photo
Fri 04/18/08 05:54 PM
Just be as honest as you can be and hopefully you will still be friends. Good Luck to you

lilith401's photo
Fri 04/18/08 06:05 PM

that is going nowhere, but you have some feelings for that person and i guess feel some sort of comfort-?


You tell them what you would want to hear, if it were you. And draw a firm boundary line, and make that clear. Once you have your say, and make sure they know if you want friendship, then the ball is in his court.

He decides, as you already have.

no photo
Fri 04/18/08 06:14 PM
sad sad sad sad Im sorry,,,PLEASE DON"T LEAVE ME...



noway noway WAIT A MINUTE......Im NOT you boyfriend....



TELL him off and THEN I COULD BE,,,,:tongue: :tongue: :wink:




Just kidding,,,,
IF YOU FEEL YOUR DONE??

THEN YOU SHOULD BE!

THATS my BEST...TRY,TRY,,,,,,,TRY SOME MORE,,,,,TRY AGAIN.

ITS TIME TO SAY GOODBYE MY FRIEND.:cry: :heart: :wink:

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