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Topic: how do you break off a relationship
iRon's photo
Fri 04/18/08 06:14 PM

that is going nowhere, but you have some feelings for that person and i guess feel some sort of comfort-?



hell that is more than a lot of people get in any relationship. So instead of breaking it of I would think that you would want to ask yourself.

1, Have I tried to make this relationship all it can be?

2, Have I communicated my wishes for relationship to my partner?

3, Have I given it all the time the relationship needed to grow?

4, Is it my pattern to run for a relationship when I have feelings for them?

and if the answer to these question indicate he needs to go. Then just tell his ass c-ya and the sooner the better so he can go find someone else

alexiateigra's photo
Fri 04/18/08 11:06 PM


comfort isn't enough to make the relationship work noway need more than that... i just ended a situation by being honest with him and telling him there was just something missing when we were together


i tell him that, he saids it will be different, it never is




It takes 2 to be in relationship. He may not be ready to let go but, if your heart is not in it, then you need to be honest with him. He may not like your decision but, it is not real relationship unless both of you are committed.

nvrsaynvr's photo
Fri 04/18/08 11:11 PM
{{{Joyce}}} Honesty is always the best, and maybe after a bit of time you can still be friends.

Wishing you good luck!!flowerforyou flowerforyou

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 04/18/08 11:14 PM

that is going nowhere, but you have some feelings for that person and i guess feel some sort of comfort-?


Just want to be friends...well it always worked for the girls that used it on me.

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