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Topic: need some advice from guys/gals to
iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Fri 04/18/08 05:02 PM
YOU need to find YOUR nich in the forums,,, To STAND OUT over other as a "YOU" type thing.. Like,,,The way you say hi to someone on a post? The way you say goodbye there? Your personality,,,funny,,,BE FUNNY, Pissy,,,,be PISSY.. ECT??? The MORE you post and PEOPLE HERE get to READ YOU and SEE you. THEY will feel they know you and YOU will through ALL that you SHOW HERE in TYPE,,,,become to ALL of us,,,,YOU (dks6457) Lets just say that YOUR trade mark on ANY reply was Giggles,,Hi. Giggles Goodnight now. People here will pick up on YOU USING GIGGLES, FASTER than you just being a typed ,,,Hi,,,or Goodnight. Just a little thing that I have seen on here.. AND, also SOMEONE who views you alot,,and you find THEM cute,,,EMAIL THEM? SAY hey, I seen ya peekin at me,,you want to talk? OR something like that?? But hopfully some of this will HELP ya get YOUR angle going. So YOU get seen here, and make some good friends... GREAT LUCK TO YOU!!!!

TongueKISS Joined Thu 09/20/07 Posts: 125	Fri 04/18/08 05:03 PM
I say you should either start making the first move or go on a different site.... for me I choose to allow things to happen naturally, because let's face it men on this site and men period want sex and at 50, men your age want women my age. I am not sure if this advice helps you in anyway, but you want a man too badly and that is never a good thing.

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Fri 04/18/08 05:03 PM
Yes it is poss.; sites shows who views your profile. Go to account & click on views last 30 days. Librarian, don't worry about it, your lookin good.

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Fri 04/18/08 05:05 PM
Sorry to disagree, but last thing I want is a 20 something arm candy. Don't want to do all the training.

wickedlluccy Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 1040	Fri 04/18/08 05:06 PM Edited by wickedlluccy on Fri 04/18/08 05:07 PM
...THIS IS EXCELLANT ADVICE ....lol...lol...all you gotta do is read my s**t and you can tell 'Im busting w/personality....loll...and I dont pull punches, tell it like it is, still met me a wonderful guy here (I'm edgy and he likes me that way!!!) YOU need to find YOUR nich in the forums,,, To STAND OUT over other as a "YOU" type thing.. Like,,,The way you say hi to someone on a post? The way you say goodbye there? Your personality,,,funny,,,BE FUNNY, Pissy,,,,be PISSY.. ECT??? The MORE you post and PEOPLE HERE get to READ YOU and SEE you. THEY will feel they know you and YOU will through ALL that you SHOW HERE in TYPE,,,,become to ALL of us,,,,YOU (dks6457) Lets just say that YOUR trade mark on ANY reply was Giggles,,Hi. Giggles Goodnight now. People here will pick up on YOU USING GIGGLES, FASTER than you just being a typed ,,,Hi,,,or Goodnight. Just a little thing that I have seen on here.. AND, also SOMEONE who views you alot,,and you find THEM cute,,,EMAIL THEM? SAY hey, I seen ya peekin at me,,you want to talk? OR something like that?? But hopfully some of this will HELP ya get YOUR angle going. So YOU get seen here, and make some good friends... GREAT LUCK TO YOU!!!!

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Fri 04/18/08 05:08 PM
luccy, one HOT pic.

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Fri 04/18/08 05:12 PM
YOU need to find YOUR nich in the forums,,, To STAND OUT over other as a "YOU" type thing.. Like,,,The way you say hi to someone on a post? The way you say goodbye there? Your personality,,,funny,,,BE FUNNY, Pissy,,,,be PISSY.. ECT??? The MORE you post and PEOPLE HERE get to READ YOU and SEE you. THEY will feel they know you and YOU will through ALL that you SHOW HERE in TYPE,,,,become to ALL of us,,,,YOU (dks6457) Lets just say that YOUR trade mark on ANY reply was Giggles,,Hi. Giggles Goodnight now. People here will pick up on YOU USING GIGGLES, FASTER than you just being a typed ,,,Hi,,,or Goodnight. Just a little thing that I have seen on here.. AND, also SOMEONE who views you alot,,and you find THEM cute,,,EMAIL THEM? SAY hey, I seen ya peekin at me,,you want to talk? OR something like that?? But hopfully some of this will HELP ya get YOUR angle going. So YOU get seen here, and make some good friends... GREAT LUCK TO YOU!!!! i used to do that but no one ever ever e-mailed me back...

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/18/08 05:18 PM
I have the same problem. Change your body type to Average. Who knows, we may seem average to somebody. It couldn't hurt and it will make you feel better to. I did. How do you change your body type? It is what it is. Or do you mean "lie about your body type"? That'll go over well when they finally meet.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/18/08 05:18 PM Edited by hikerchick on Fri 04/18/08 05:19 PM
oops.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/18/08 05:19 PM
YOU need to find YOUR nich in the forums,,, To STAND OUT over other as a "YOU" type thing.. Like,,,The way you say hi to someone on a post? The way you say goodbye there? Your personality,,,funny,,,BE FUNNY, Pissy,,,,be PISSY.. ECT??? The MORE you post and PEOPLE HERE get to READ YOU and SEE you. THEY will feel they know you and YOU will through ALL that you SHOW HERE in TYPE,,,,become to ALL of us,,,,YOU (dks6457) Lets just say that YOUR trade mark on ANY reply was Giggles,,Hi. Giggles Goodnight now. People here will pick up on YOU USING GIGGLES, FASTER than you just being a typed ,,,Hi,,,or Goodnight. Just a little thing that I have seen on here.. AND, also SOMEONE who views you alot,,and you find THEM cute,,,EMAIL THEM? SAY hey, I seen ya peekin at me,,you want to talk? OR something like that?? But hopfully some of this will HELP ya get YOUR angle going. So YOU get seen here, and make some good friends... GREAT LUCK TO YOU!!!! What's my niche, Terry?

kendrab90 Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 1917	Fri 04/18/08 05:20 PM
its okay no one messages me either

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/18/08 05:21 PM
I say you should either start making the first move or go on a different site.... for me I choose to allow things to happen naturally, because let's face it men on this site and men period want sex and at 50, men your age want women my age. I am not sure if this advice helps you in anyway, but you want a man too badly and that is never a good thing. not all men want women your age. Who told you that? Some people like to play with kids their own age. Actually guys your age like women my age. Go figure.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Fri 04/18/08 05:22 PM
YOU need to find YOUR nich in the forums,,, To STAND OUT over other as a "YOU" type thing.. Like,,,The way you say hi to someone on a post? The way you say goodbye there? Your personality,,,funny,,,BE FUNNY, Pissy,,,,be PISSY.. ECT??? The MORE you post and PEOPLE HERE get to READ YOU and SEE you. THEY will feel they know you and YOU will through ALL that you SHOW HERE in TYPE,,,,become to ALL of us,,,,YOU (dks6457) Lets just say that YOUR trade mark on ANY reply was Giggles,,Hi. Giggles Goodnight now. People here will pick up on YOU USING GIGGLES, FASTER than you just being a typed ,,,Hi,,,or Goodnight. Just a little thing that I have seen on here.. AND, also SOMEONE who views you alot,,and you find THEM cute,,,EMAIL THEM? SAY hey, I seen ya peekin at me,,you want to talk? OR something like that?? But hopfully some of this will HELP ya get YOUR angle going. So YOU get seen here, and make some good friends... GREAT LUCK TO YOU!!!! What's my niche, Terry? You have a very CRISP since of humor, its BOLD. So THAT in my mind is YOUR center as to people liking to read you. But YOUR also very full of heart, and THAT KEEPS THEM READING YA,wink,lol,lol

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Fri 04/18/08 05:31 PM
Replies and emails and such come from those who care and want to take the chance to get to know someone. As in real life, in the real world, begging for dates just don't work. Be yourself and post often in the forums and sooner or later, you'll get that email. Freindships develope, they don't just appear as if magic had something to do with it. I have been on this site for some time, not real long, but have made some great friends, and still don't recieve many emails. IT TAKES TIME!!!

dks6457 Joined Sun 08/19/07 Posts: 37	Fri 04/18/08 05:31 PM
thanks all for the reply, i have been in the forums, meaning what iam doing now is this correct? I put a "few extra lbs." because its true, i'm a take me or leave me gal, and i just lost 16.6 lbs: and go to the gym most days of the week but still won't change that body type till i am at where i want to be. On the other site i lets me know you has viewed my profile and i get many repeaters but it stops there, oh well any interested in sweeping me off my feet? I live in NH

kendrab90 Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 1917	Fri 04/18/08 05:32 PM
the more i post the less e-mails i get i think people are scared of me

dks6457 Joined Sun 08/19/07 Posts: 37	Fri 04/18/08 05:33 PM
thanks good sugestions and i do take the initiative and start conntact many timews still gets me no where and shoot i'm adorable lol

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Fri 04/18/08 05:35 PM
In my experiance here. My man signed up for the site, I saw him and knew I wanted to talk to him. I mailed him, and the rest is history. Love at last!! So if you see something you want, go get it. If you don't get replies, move on to the next...you will meet someone!!

kendrab90 Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 1917	Fri 04/18/08 05:35 PM
yes you are

yashafox_F4X1 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 2079	Fri 04/18/08 05:37 PM
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