IF IT IS JUST STUPID
FEEL FREE TO NOT RESPOND


THE GIRL IM KINDA
CRUSHING ON HAS A BOYFRIEND
ODD THING IS WE BOTH WISH TO HAVE MET UNDER DIFFERENT CIRCUMSTANCE

WE ARE JUST FRIENDS [ SHE SAYS I CAN TELL YOU ANYTHING
]THEN SHE ASKED ME WHY WAS I SO EASY TO TALK TO

MY RESPONSE WAS "CAUSE IM THE GUY FOR YOU"
WE ARE JUST FRIENDS AND THATS COOL
BUT ONE OF THESE NIGHTS YOUR GONNA REALIZE IT
IM THE GUY FOR YOU


WE TALK ALL THE TIME
CONFUSED? CANT REALLY READ HER

PLEASE HELP!

Ok is this someone you met online..and never face to face?
If "yes" well it is hard to read anyway..
If this is a girl that u have met, and she really feels the same way..they you guys will some how end up together..
I laugh at this sometimes..b/c if u are really want to be together just dump your GF or BF and get together..its that simple..I think alot of people just use that lame "I have BF or GF" excuse..because they don't want to commit to the other person..I know I have used it alot..lol...
So maby she just wants to be buddies.

follow your gut ..if you have feelings for her ..mybe you better keep it to yourself just so it wont cause you prblems ..i know it must be hard ..i had a similar sititaction before.. until the moment is right ..been there before good luck

If she's not free...it's gonna cost you. That's all I know.

Well becareful no matter what happens with the whole thing. i was in a situation like that not too long ago, only I was the single one and he had a gf...The logical answer would be what Cinderella said, and she should just break up with her boyfriend, and yada yada. But sometimes its not that easy. like in mine, he ended up breaking up with his girlfriend of 2years, started dating me, after a week we broke up and he went back to her...Maybe its a comfort thing.. I'm not too sure. but still, be her friend and take things one day at a time. Just what ever you do, until u are sure that things wont backfire dont let ur heart get involved

I'm not a lady so can't help you, but if i was a lady i'd say stay away from someone else's girl...both of you are out of line....Where's your values?...no wonder why relationships can't work out....Sheesh!!!....

ok dude, i hear ya on this one. I am assuming that she sorta knows how you feel. If not make it a bit more obvious. You have to pay attention... If she calls you more than you call her, if she asks you to hang out more than you do her, if she initiates the more personal conversations than you do, than these are good signs. It is a GREAT sign if she keeps this up after you've made some obvious hints of your interests on taking things further. If she says things like "you are so different from all the other guys." or "i wish my boyfriend was a little more like you"....you know things of that nature. These are green light symbols. The only problem is that it is up to you to take things further. You are the male, take charge a bit. It's your natural role. Now, women can get kinda tricky. You have to take your time with your advancements because the whole time she is wondering to herself "should i be doing this?" and if you are too agressive than it will scare her away. While at the same time you have to keep in mind if you don't keep progressing with a woman they will lose interest. Women are strange like that. They decide within the first minute or so of meeting you whether or not they are willing to go with you to the next step. When the time is there for the next step it only takes a few minutes to decide whether she should go further and so on. But remember, this doesn't mean you should try to sleep with her as soon as possible. This just means there needs to be some sort of constant, step by step, progression, it can be slow(In fact slow is prefered). (By progression i mean physical contact) As far as specifics on exactly how you should bring things to her attention and/or how you should progress, that involves reading her. Remember, you are not seeking her approval of you, but you are trying to play in to her likes and dislikes. Some people respond better to more direct approaches, some respond better to more subtle ones. Get what i am saying? Just read the signs. If her ACTIONS, and BODYLAUNGUAGE (not necesarily words) reflect that she is interested, then progress things just a little. (Anticipation can also be a powerful tool) Oh yeah, another thing to look out for is how often, as well as how positive she speaks of her current boyfriend. Becuase if she seems very happy with him, you don't want to tread on that. Maybe you should ask her a subtle question or two about him...

people do sometimes make things way more complicated than they seem...

absolutely. love should be easy. sometimes painful yes, but easy

I DON'T KNOW WHAT WE'RE YELLING AOUT