Topic: Trust issues
king25's photo
Fri 04/18/08 10:52 AM
Ok i been single almost two years my problem is i want a relationship but i have a hard time trusting a woman every relationship has been lies cheating and mostly BS i just want a woman i can trust before i mess around and miss out on my soul mate cuz of my trust issues im so confused

franshade's photo
Fri 04/18/08 10:54 AM
follow your instincts and gut flowerforyou
the right one will come when you least expect it

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Fri 04/18/08 10:55 AM
It may take time to gain trust back.
It is good you know you have trust issues.
That way you can face them rather than denie them.

It took me a few years to trust again after being badly hurt.
In time I healed. At some point we have to get out there
and just join life in that lane again. Don't waste away
several years like I did.

me2g's photo
Fri 04/18/08 10:57 AM
girls are meangrumble oh hey teddy.. fran.. ohwell laugh

stevil342001's photo
Fri 04/18/08 10:57 AM

follow your instincts and gut flowerforyou
the right one will come when you least expect it


always trust your gut feeling.. amen to that franshade

Goofball73's photo
Fri 04/18/08 10:57 AM

Ok i been single almost two years my problem is i want a relationship but i have a hard time trusting a woman every relationship has been lies cheating and mostly BS i just want a woman i can trust before i mess around and miss out on my soul mate cuz of my trust issues im so confused


Well, until you can trust again, then I would suggest not getting involved at all. If you do get involved, say cause you are lonely, and you have these "trust issues" then it will destroy the relationship. You have to let go of it and just take a chance. Someone is out there for you. Someone who will earn your trust and someone that you will trust 100%. Date for a while man. Get to know some women and then, if you find one, build a relationship with her.

Joni321's photo
Fri 04/18/08 10:58 AM
I had to figure out why I picked people who were not trustworthy, and then to responsibility for my part in each relationship. I still can pick the wrong person if I'm not careful and I don't listen very carefully to what they say, how they say and the actions. Love doesn't happen over night and I find it's probably best to look for fiends first and then if it becomes love down the road that is wonderful.flowerforyou

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Fri 04/18/08 11:00 AM
me2g :tongue: laugh

BlueskyJ's photo
Fri 04/18/08 11:02 AM

Ok i been single almost two years my problem is i want a relationship but i have a hard time trusting a woman every relationship has been lies cheating and mostly BS i just want a woman i can trust before i mess around and miss out on my soul mate cuz of my trust issues im so confused

Trust can never be given, it must be earned...We make little deposits of trust by the things we say and the things we do....as you are in a developing relationship look for the things that she does to build trust & look at what you do to build trust....then check on how you are feeling.....you'll be good...

notmytimeline20x6's photo
Fri 04/18/08 11:03 AM

Ok i been single almost two years my problem is i want a relationship but i have a hard time trusting a woman every relationship has been lies cheating and mostly BS i just want a woman i can trust before i mess around and miss out on my soul mate cuz of my trust issues im so confused
Right there with you guy, yet I keep on pushin' forward !

sweetpea1970's photo
Fri 04/18/08 11:04 AM
i have that same issue going on

No1sLove's photo
Fri 04/18/08 11:04 AM


Ok i been single almost two years my problem is i want a relationship but i have a hard time trusting a woman every relationship has been lies cheating and mostly BS i just want a woman i can trust before i mess around and miss out on my soul mate cuz of my trust issues im so confused

Trust can never be given, it must be earned...We make little deposits of trust by the things we say and the things we do....as you are in a developing relationship look for the things that she does to build trust & look at what you do to build trust....then check on how you are feeling.....you'll be good...
Nice blueskyJ...really nice! flowerforyou

franshade's photo
Fri 04/18/08 11:04 AM

girls are meangrumble oh hey teddy.. fran.. ohwell laugh

hiya me2g

BlueskyJ's photo
Fri 04/18/08 11:11 AM



Ok i been single almost two years my problem is i want a relationship but i have a hard time trusting a woman every relationship has been lies cheating and mostly BS i just want a woman i can trust before i mess around and miss out on my soul mate cuz of my trust issues im so confused

Trust can never be given, it must be earned...We make little deposits of trust by the things we say and the things we do....as you are in a developing relationship look for the things that she does to build trust & look at what you do to build trust....then check on how you are feeling.....you'll be good...
Nice blueskyJ...really nice! flowerforyou

Thank-you blushing