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Topic: How Do I Let Somebody Down Nicely?
MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 04/17/08 11:17 PM


laugh tell him you're not into guys laugh


That's a good one.laugh
drinker yepdrinker

whispertoascream's photo
Thu 04/17/08 11:29 PM

laugh tell him you're not into guys laugh


laugh laugh laugh Then he may want to ask to join in!laugh

MCLOVIN4ALL's photo
Thu 04/17/08 11:30 PM

Just simply do what all the women do to me. Ignore him.


This seems to be the requisite JSH response from women who lack proper social skills.

Or, you can just tell him you aren't interested in anything more than a friendship at this time. Say nothing else. Explainations tend to cause a mixup in the other persons mind and they believe you said that with the right guy things can be different.

Just saying.

whispertoascream's photo
Thu 04/17/08 11:34 PM
Thank you all for your advice. I think I got him off my back. Cause he responded to my e-mail with this:

Oh, I fully understand 100% and I'm really happy for you that he called and I hope you do work things out. Definitely it won't be fair to either one of us, and I want to thank you for your honesty and that's great, your honesty means a lot to me and I have no problem being just friends. When the time is right love will find me. I hope we can stay friends

EtherealEmbers's photo
Thu 04/17/08 11:40 PM
Only what kind of friend are you, you weren't honest. That just sucks. I always hope my friends are honest with me.

whispertoascream's photo
Thu 04/17/08 11:45 PM

Only what kind of friend are you, you weren't honest. That just sucks. I always hope my friends are honest with me.


When honesty does not seem to work the first time what other options does one have? Don't make me feel like crap, cause it ain't going to work.

EtherealEmbers's photo
Thu 04/17/08 11:48 PM
I can't make you feel like crap, only you can do that. I was simply expressing that I REALLY think it sucks when someone calls themselves a friend to someone and they lie to their face/inbox/whatever.

EtherealEmbers's photo
Thu 04/17/08 11:49 PM


Only what kind of friend are you, you weren't honest. That just sucks. I always hope my friends are honest with me.


When honesty does not seem to work the first time what other options does one have? Don't make me feel like crap, cause it ain't going to work.


Actually you didn't use honesty the first time except to say that you weren't ready. That means maybe later. He offered a maybe later and you didn't want it so you lied.

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