Topic: why aren't my distance settings working?
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Thu 04/17/08 09:52 AM
I have my settings for distance at 100 miles from me. I CONSTANTLY get notices from other states. Why is this, and how do I stop it? I'd love to be getting more notices about men I can ACTUALLY ever meet!! ohwell

lilith401's photo
Thu 04/17/08 09:53 AM
Mutual Matches are not based on your search settings. They are random...

Makes more sense?

chickayoshi's photo
Thu 04/17/08 09:55 AM
Yeah, it's the Mutual Match. The male members see just about every available girl according to their criteria...not their settings. That may be why you are getting messages from guys out of state.

zanne46's photo
Thu 04/17/08 09:56 AM
thats ok..I said "no" blue boxes...sorry blues....but I get them any way..

It's still fun here...regarddless...

and lots of really great people..:smile:

forever_fifites's photo
Thu 04/17/08 09:57 AM

I have my settings for distance at 100 miles from me. I CONSTANTLY get notices from other states. Why is this, and how do I stop it? I'd love to be getting more notices about men I can ACTUALLY ever meet!! ohwell


There are lots of us guys who would happily traverse 3 or 4 states to meet a fair damsel like you. :wink:

docburneraz's photo
Thu 04/17/08 10:04 AM
Youve got a blue what?laugh

robert1652's photo
Thu 04/17/08 10:06 AM

I have my settings for distance at 100 miles from me. I CONSTANTLY get notices from other states. Why is this, and how do I stop it? I'd love to be getting more notices about men I can ACTUALLY ever meet!! ohwell


Don't grumble I found all the best girls were from far away and I have met some of them. Love has no frontier if there is a will there is a way
Good luck
A computer error today may be your eternal happiness tomorrow .
A THANKS BUT NO THANKS MESSAGE HAS NOT KILLED ANY ONE

HAVE FUN

flowerforyou

zanne46's photo
Thu 04/17/08 10:07 AM

Youve got a blue what?laugh


ur gonna have a black eye mister...laugh laugh

then u are going to put up a blue box and then I will delete u...laugh laugh laugh laugh :tongue: :tongue: smooched

ljcc1964's photo
Thu 04/17/08 10:12 AM
Well...you're just going to have to accept that you will end up falling in love with a guy 3000 miles away. Mutual Match has spoken!!