women are always right even when they're wrong

i would have been on your side - totally agree with this!!

yes, correct.

Congratulations... you have mastered rule one......

where were all these people when I posted the topic?

This reminds me of something I heard once....

If a man is walking in the forest miles out of hearing range of any woman and he says something, is he still wrong?

<<<always has the control...men only get the remote

Yes, unless he agrees with me...

lol

So you will always win an argument? I see no loopholes here...

Your mama didn't raise a dummy did she?

Just to clarify, the question, just was simple..who starts the relationship..who intiates the contact, or starting the connection...nothing about control in a relationship. I was just wondering who you thought controlled if you pursue a relationship or not...like who agreed to date and give it a chance.
Like the answers though.

again, the answer is - whoever wants to. That seems kinda obvious.

me

Well those are kinda 2 different things.

I don't make inital contact...EVER...it's one of those things with me.

who controls it? I don't really know, I allow people to be who they are to me, whether it be best friend worst enemy, so in a way we both do.

Control is such an odd word for dating. who takes the initiative, who allows the boundries to be set, who allows themselves to give in... Those are very inticate delicate chess moves where each individual can be ahead or behind at any given second of the match.

why is it a match? why does there have to be competition? Why can't a person of either sex initiate contact with a person they think may be good in a relationship? If the feeling is mutual why not inter into it as equals and see where it goes....

.....thats what I have this time and it rocks !!!!!!!

~wicked~

The women have most control and we all know why, not saying its right but its the truth. as prince signs "***** control"

IDK, have you ever dated before.....someone has to make the first move, and say "Hey, I like you, wanna go out sometimes" that is the first move...... that person does that in hopes that the other person will say "Why, thank you, yes I would" So you see how it goes back and forth.

I don't know many people who say "Hey would you like to go out for coffee" in hopes of the other person saying "No, your a hairy oaf, go take a bath"

You make yourself volnerable. and then the other person does, it goes back and forth, at the initial stages of the "mating ritual"

Who makes first contact...it's up to them, I prefer for the guy to do it....and I have my reasons why....