So get online earlier this evening and find 3 messages in my mail from someone new. Now I did not leave my computer on JSH so it wouldn't look like I was online. He left 3 messages, each 2 minutes apart telling me was interested in me and would I message him. Well, the first only said 'hi'. The second said the rest. The third asked if I was a model. Um, no, I don't think any of my pictures would look anything model-like.

1. Does that make him look desperate to anyone else or is that just my view of it.

2. Isn't it kinda insulting to ask someone who totally isn't model material if they are model? Doesn't it seem like the person is totally trying to hard or trying to play a girl?

hahahah she said "hard"!

Sounds like you came across what we here on Just Say Hi call human speedbumps. You know the type... the wheel's spinning upstairs but no one's steering the car?

Take the "model" compliment for what it is.. a nice, semi-weird way to tell you he thinks you're beautiful... then enjoy whatever dazzling display of words he next unleashes on you.

In any case, take things with a grain of salt, especially on here. But I don't have to tell you that, do I? (=

Hello! I think you are absolutely correct in what you say. As our friends the Masons say, I feel you should proceed with caution or, better still, have nothing to do with this one at all.

You are right - it IS insulting.

Well, maybe he was just struck by you, it happens. Kind of like ebay, you gotta make sure you get the last bid and sweeten the pot.

I wouldt take the model thing as insulting, you do have the bone structure and again, this guy is just really into you, like a hyper I can't wait till mom gets home puppy.

just my thoughts though

I can handle being told I'm beautiful. But I'm way too short and waaaaayyyyyyy to curvy to ever be a model.

No, that was insulting

You definately could be a model. You have class & style that shows in your photos & you pull off a variety of styles & poses very well! People are finnaly starting to realize that models don't all have to be from the same mold.

It's hard to tell if the guy is "desperate". I think many people online expect instant gratification, people on here don't seem to be very patient & when you are waitinmg for a reply 2 minutes can seem like forever.

Especially when I would have shown up as NOT online. We had a power outage here and I didn't get the computer powered back up until late evening.

Moon you was one of the first people to befriend me here, if you want to chat I'm here to listen, but don't listen to that old fart that said it was "insulting".

I think the gentleman was just trying to be protective.

Moondark, the guy is hitting up on you and it's your choice to respond or decline. I've heard some funny lines! Gotta smile sometimes.

DrX. I always like your pics. They show so much personality. Not someone sitting there waiting for the camera to go off.

Lines only bother me if they are obviously way off base or indicate someone has completely failed to read my profile.

Now if it is interesting and off the wall but at least shows they read what I wrote, I may actually reply. Creativity should be acknowledged!

Just message me already.

Why thank you Moon