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Topic: Am I doing this right?
DarlingDeb Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 75	Tue 04/15/08 10:10 PM
I'm new to this site and I'm not sure I'm coming across the way I want. I want to date, go out and have a good time until I meet the man who makes me not want to date anymore. If I say I'm looking for a commitment guys bolt but if I try and hedge my bets by saying 'let's see what happens', I get guys booking hotel rooms along with dinner reservations! I realize I've been out of the loop for awhile but maybe I'm doing something wrong?!

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Tue 04/15/08 10:32 PM
different people, different reactions, you should see how they react to me......like rrrrrrruuuuuuunnnnnn!!!!!!!!!!

LAMom Joined Tue 12/12/06 Posts: 26866	Tue 04/15/08 10:35 PM
Awwwwwwwwwwwwww Just be you,,, And join the Forums get to know the Family and have some fun Welcome

DarlingDeb Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 75	Wed 04/16/08 12:41 AM
thanks for making me feel welcome, Deb

downhomechik Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 479	Wed 04/16/08 10:10 AM
Hi Deb. I just started here. Sounds like you know what you want or you will when you find it...follow your heart & all will be well. Remember everything will be ok in the end. If its not okay its not the end....

DarlingDeb Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 75	Wed 04/16/08 06:11 PM Edited by DarlingDeb on Wed 04/16/08 06:12 PM
Thanks chik guess all it takes is a little faith and a strong stomach!

socalman48 Joined Tue 04/08/08 Posts: 9	Wed 04/16/08 06:22 PM
Deb just be yourself and say what your are looking for, if they bolt then they are not looking for the same thing you are and you stated it perfectly.........making friends and when the right one comes along then you will both know but until then just have fun and stay away from the guys that assume more than there is............ they'll get over it

socalman48 Joined Tue 04/08/08 Posts: 9	Wed 04/16/08 06:22 PM
Deb just be yourself and say what your are looking for, if they bolt then they are not looking for the same thing you are and you stated it perfectly.........making friends and when the right one comes along then you will both know but until then just have fun and stay away from the guys that assume more than there is............ they'll get over it

DarlingDeb Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 75	Wed 04/16/08 07:11 PM
thanks, I'm getting a lot of support here, so I know I'm in the right place! DEB

lifestooshort6 Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 6667	Thu 04/17/08 06:55 PM
Deb just be yourself and say what your are looking for, if they bolt then they are not looking for the same thing you are and you stated it perfectly.........making friends and when the right one comes along then you will both know but until then just have fun and stay away from the guys that assume more than there is............ they'll get over it I agree just grab a coffee(or whatever floats your boat) and get to know the JSH family, it's loads of fun!

charmed_1 Joined Sat 05/10/08 Posts: 38	Fri 05/16/08 06:09 AM
Is there room in your club ? cause I hear what you are saying ...It seems that ALOT OF PEOPLE Male and female say one thing mean another and that is where it all becomes messy... So i suggest IF it says Friendship stick with the rules for it same as you would if it says relationship and if you wanna make your own rules BOTH parties should have that option,as well as the option to CHANGE the rules!!! It only takes ONE to say NO and TWO to TANGO

beachbum069 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 14325	Fri 05/16/08 06:11 AM
Welcome to the JHS community. You'll make lots of friends in the forums.