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well i got my girls, but it was a very emotional time. hope didnt want to leave her mom and the others were crying like crazy when there mom told them she wouldnt be able to see them for a couple of months. but i finaly got them calmed down when i took them to mcdonalds and now they are asleep. i guess im relieved to have them but i hurt for them. they are my kids but they are hers too. shes such a *****. sorry im just releiving some stress. and tips on trying to help them understand, please help cuz i dont even know how
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 Happy for you, never easy for the kids |
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congratulations on getting them!!
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just give them a few days to adjust being with you and away from "home". once they calm down, you'll be able to have some special time with them.
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well i got my girls, but it was a very emotional time. hope didnt want to leave her mom and the others were crying like crazy when there mom told them she wouldnt be able to see them for a couple of months. but i finaly got them calmed down when i took them to mcdonalds and now they are asleep. i guess im relieved to have them but i hurt for them. they are my kids but they are hers too. shes such a *****. sorry im just releiving some stress. and tips on trying to help them understand, please help cuz i dont even know how Kids are funny little people..be there for them. Be dad, be loving, but be available to them if and when they say, the darnest thing....the best thing you and the mother can do is....forget about yoursleves and make the little people the focus ......they are our future......Congrats and best of luck to you...... |
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become "the example" of what a man should be.....
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They need alot of attention right now. Don't be surprised if they revert back to a more childish behavior once in awhile.
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well i got my girls, but it was a very emotional time. hope didnt want to leave her mom and the others were crying like crazy when there mom told them she wouldnt be able to see them for a couple of months. but i finaly got them calmed down when i took them to mcdonalds and now they are asleep. i guess im relieved to have them but i hurt for them. they are my kids but they are hers too. shes such a *****. sorry im just releiving some stress. and tips on trying to help them understand, please help cuz i dont even know how Dude, I'm in a sililar situation...just be sure that you don't talk bad about their mother in front of them...it's going to take some time....look for a family resource center near you and take some parental coping classes...they are helpful. |
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I'm so sorry about your situation. My parent's separated when I was little. I would cry when I had to go to dinner with my dad. Don't know why but, I was afraid I would not come back. And, be with my sibling's. Try to realize that they may to have fear's . Like said before, love them, hold them, be there for them.
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How old are they?
Do you own any pets? If you buy them a puppy or a kitten or (gasp!) both, that will help them get over missing their mom and make them more excited about coming to visit you again in the future. |
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How old are they? Do you own any pets? If you buy them a puppy or a kitten or (gasp!) both, that will help them get over missing their mom and make them more excited about coming to visit you again in the future. the thing is there not visiting they are living with me i have full custody now. and the are fixing to be 6. and all three are allergic to cat hair so i dont think that would be a good thing |
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