catching you soon.. 46 in June

It is your lack of confidence which is your downfall young squire. Women are looking for an assertive, fun loving, and confident man.

Always Peachie!

I've had enough of the assertive in my lifetime

Very intuitive my friend. I appreciate your input hopefully it will result in an output. Providing of course if I were to take it into consideration.

You may be confusing aggressive and assertive....

Gosh, I would love to give you a makeover. Different glasses, pluck and prod. You seem like an intellegent guy, just be confident and you can have whatever you want.

Well thank you "hellkitten54". I appreciate your insight to see my intellegnce. The poeple I work with do not see my potential. Although I happen to be intellegent, I am burdened with being slow. I would not mind having help with a makeover. Only I have no friends outside of work, nor am I "Friends" with anyone I work with. I only associate myself with them at work because I work there.

Ok, you are 24 and a self procalimed nerd. Pat yourself on the back and be proud of who you are! I am 48, single, and my sister calls me a geek...enjou life!

i became single again when i was 25 and i am still single at 38 fock it at least you still have a chance

buddy..there's always one common factor when you look at it.
and it all boild down to "you"

relationships and human interaction have their set of rules that you need to understand before you can even begin playing the game. There is a method to the madness,

I'll give you the tough love I wish I'd had 5 yrs ago. My advice is for you to stop complaining, stop seeking pitty from strangers online. When I read your post I didn't see a man..you need to become a man. I'm sure you're a smart guy, but you're not going about it the smart way.

Have you defined what you want? A girl (maybe)? but do you want a relationship? Something short term? What do you want your interactions with this girl to be like? What kind of girl do you want? What personality traits are you looking for?

Answer these questions and don't just flap your arms wildly and hang on to the first thing you can grab a hold of. Thats for wimps. Men have a purpose, look at what you want, go for it.

They say "be yourself"; but what they mean is "be your BEST self". But, If I have to learn to be different that who I am today, isn't that dishonest?..Hmm well you are not really you. If you follow, you are a collection of experiences, and the influence of the people thta have surrounded you throughout your life. Day by day you are being built, so..you HAVE a choice of being different, it;s a matter of destroying the stuff that;s been less than useful, build from the inside the person you want to become, day by day, brick by brick til you become the castle any woman will feel comfortable and safe in (figuratively speaking)

also,..seek help, there's three things we need in life to trully be fulfilled love, money, knowledge school only teaches us knowledge and the other two we're just supposed to learn on our own?? heck no, find those who are successful in those areas you are not and model them.


Best of luck in your journey to a better you and I hope my words do not fall upon deaf..hmm eyes I guess

The information you have provided for me is very interesting. I will take all of it into consideration. I have a few people I can take an example from. I shall put your advice to work immediately.