Topic: Why is it
I_am_Tater's photo
Mon 04/14/08 01:26 PM
When parents dislike themselves they often take it out on their children i'll never understand that don't they know the things they say stay with that child?

Cambolaya65's photo
Mon 04/14/08 01:27 PM
<<<<<<<i agree

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 04/14/08 01:28 PM

When parents dislike themselves they often take it out on their children i'll never understand that don't they know the things they say stay with that child?
flowerforyou thats onna the reasons i dontwanna have kidsflowerforyou

I_am_Tater's photo
Mon 04/14/08 01:30 PM
i was told last night that my momm probably hates herself thats why she always treated me the way she did which made no sense because its not my fault she hates herself ya know?

hippieguy24's photo
Mon 04/14/08 01:30 PM
Unfortunately most people in the world are very very stupid... apparently unable to comprehend the world outside their own little head.

hellkitten54's photo
Mon 04/14/08 01:32 PM
People aren't perfect. It's hard raising a child, and if you don't have one, you will never understand. It's easy to say that when you are childless. Just because you can have sex, doesn't mean you will be a great parent.

writer_gurl's photo
Mon 04/14/08 01:34 PM

People aren't perfect. It's hard raising a child, and if you don't have one, you will never understand. It's easy to say that when you are childless. Just because you can have sex, doesn't mean you will be a great parent.

Very true hellkitten...You are so wisedrinker

I_am_Tater's photo
Mon 04/14/08 01:34 PM

People aren't perfect. It's hard raising a child, and if you don't have one, you will never understand. It's easy to say that when you are childless. Just because you can have sex, doesn't mean you will be a great parent.



im just tryin to understand why she says things like she wishes i was never born i mean i know its hard but damn

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 04/14/08 01:35 PM
It just goes to show some should never be parentsnoway

I_am_Tater's photo
Mon 04/14/08 01:36 PM

It just goes to show some should never be parentsnoway



yea i agree

hellkitten54's photo
Mon 04/14/08 01:40 PM


People aren't perfect. It's hard raising a child, and if you don't have one, you will never understand. It's easy to say that when you are childless. Just because you can have sex, doesn't mean you will be a great parent.



im just tryin to understand why she says things like she wishes i was never born i mean i know its hard but damn

Well sweetie. Just know that you are here for a reason, no matter what she says to you. Don't take it personally cause it seems she has problems herself. You don't have to put up with this kind of stuff. Be strong and don't take it to heart!flowerforyou

hellkitten54's photo
Mon 04/14/08 01:40 PM


People aren't perfect. It's hard raising a child, and if you don't have one, you will never understand. It's easy to say that when you are childless. Just because you can have sex, doesn't mean you will be a great parent.

Very true hellkitten...You are so wisedrinker


Tell that to my brother.laugh grumble

I_am_Tater's photo
Mon 04/14/08 01:50 PM



People aren't perfect. It's hard raising a child, and if you don't have one, you will never understand. It's easy to say that when you are childless. Just because you can have sex, doesn't mean you will be a great parent.



im just tryin to understand why she says things like she wishes i was never born i mean i know its hard but damn

Well sweetie. Just know that you are here for a reason, no matter what she says to you. Don't take it personally cause it seems she has problems herself. You don't have to put up with this kind of stuff. Be strong and don't take it to heart!flowerforyou



i moved out but now she trash talks me i wouldnt care except my aunts mad too so i have yet to see my new little cousin. it doesnt bother me anymore it just baffles me the way some parents act children should be a blessing yet we have fathers who leave and mothers who j ust care about themselves

lilith401's photo
Mon 04/14/08 02:09 PM
Selfish people become selfish parents. It stinks, but there it is. Only give her the power she deserves. You control your self-image.

I am sorry that had to be heard. I'm sorry it was said out loud. And remember... you define you.