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Topic: Was I wrong?
UnclePorky Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 1107	Mon 04/14/08 02:02 PM
you did the right thing

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Mon 04/14/08 02:04 PM
i am a nurse also, however i never answer my telepone on a date unless it is one of my children, since they live 2 plus hours away i like to make sure it is not an emergency. i have worked as a manager and was on call for all emergencies regarding my units 24/7-- that is why i quit after 2 years.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 04/14/08 02:09 PM
i THINK BOTH of you were rude!!!! Hmmmmmmmmm perfect match!!!

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 04/14/08 03:09 PM
i THINK BOTH of you were rude!!!! Hmmmmmmmmm perfect match!!! Why do you think I was rude?

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Mon 04/14/08 04:11 PM
I think you did the right thing bro I probably would've done the same

bttrflyv2 Joined Mon 12/04/06 Posts: 1880	Mon 04/14/08 04:14 PM
to answer the phone on a first date is rude.....

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Mon 04/14/08 04:20 PM
I am the laboratory manager of a large medical center. This means I can get calls at any time of day or night. Fortunately I have a dependable charge staff in place to handle problems so if I DO get a call, it is an urgent issue. If I am on a date I only answer for my kids, mom or work.. none of which call me very often.

AngelLight Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4817	Mon 04/14/08 04:57 PM
You said "I can't do this"....You know what you know about yourself. It's not a matter of whether you were right or wrong. Always go with your gut instincts. You did what felt true to your inner experience. She did not appear to be the woman for you, and so you ended the date. Do not feel guilty because you paid attention to your needs.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 04/14/08 05:14 PM
You said "I can't do this"....You know what you know about yourself. It's not a matter of whether you were right or wrong. Always go with your gut instincts. You did what felt true to your inner experience. She did not appear to be the woman for you, and so you ended the date. Do not feel guilty because you paid attention to your needs. Wow Well said

AngelLight Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4817	Mon 04/14/08 05:21 PM
Well, that's exactly what you did...you paid attention to your needs. Good for you! It's always good to take care of your heart

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 04/14/08 05:24 PM
Well, that's exactly what you did...you paid attention to your needs. Good for you! It's always good to take care of your heart It wasn't so much the rudeness that got to me. It was the idea of wanting to put your best foot forward when you first meet someone. If she was that inattentive on the FIRST DATE, what would things look like six months down the road?

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Mon 04/14/08 05:26 PM
<--- Taking notes. Note to self. (Turn cell phone off when on date!) She got what she deserved. Her date was with you. She should have left her phone off or cut short calls from whoever was bugging her and tell them not to call her back. She was rude and/or just stupid.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Mon 04/14/08 05:31 PM
Once I had an appointment with someone in their office. While I was there, he answered about four phone calls, saying "excuse me" each time. I waited. About the fifth call, I asked him if I should go find a telephone and just call him, because it looked like his calls were getting priority over his personal appointments.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 04/14/08 05:45 PM
Once I had an appointment with someone in their office. While I was there, he answered about four phone calls, saying "excuse me" each time. I waited. About the fifth call, I asked him if I should go find a telephone and just call him, because it looked like his calls were getting priority over his personal appointments. Are you a long lost relative??

wickedlluccy Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 1040	Mon 04/14/08 06:19 PM
how rude.............even if you have kids you have the decency to put it on vibrate and answer only if its your kid.........I'm sorry Im proud of you KUDOS DUDE !!! ~wicked~

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 04/14/08 06:39 PM
how rude.............even if you have kids you have the decency to put it on vibrate and answer only if its your kid.........I'm sorry Im proud of you KUDOS DUDE !!! ~wicked~ Thanks wicked