sage, i also respect your opinion, but it is not my own. I would not lay
my life down for anyone if i had the time to think about it. Instinct is
another thing, but if you use rationality, you come down to the
knowledge that what makes a person who loves themself the happiest...is
pursuing more happiness. And i dont believe in scripture. i believe you
have one life to live, and you must live it to the fullest

Love ,is doing something you don't want to do,for her/him.
Compromise doesn't make you weak,it strengthens the bond,between you
both,makes you a stronger team.
It's much easier going through life with someone who supports you like a
pillar.

Amen !!

Well said Dane !

Tight on Dane

thats right on Dane....

So, you've only been with one dude, and you think you like someone else?
Appearantly, you don't like the dude you're with now. If you even have
to ask about some other dude, you've lost some feelin for the guy ya got
now. 6 years together..........why nothin else?? No marriage?? No kids??
If you've been with the same guy for 6 years and ya don't know what love
is, I'm sorry, but I don't think he'll help ya out with that. Just tryin
to slap ya with reality. Life is too short to be wastin it with games,
if you don't love the person you're with, there's really no point in
bein with them.

DANE you are right..
When you love someone, you are willing to compromise and show your
dedication, understanding and love. That is a sign of you being secure
about yourself, your feelings and that you are strong and true to what
you want.
Never be afraid to give in, in the end, if your efforts were in vain, it
is because that person was never meant for you. The good thing about it
is that you will walk with your head up knowing that you did your best
and that you tried to make the best of it. You will walk away without
having those feelings of “what if..?’
Having someone in your life is very important. We all need to feel loved
and needing that, is a true statement that you are a human being full of
emotions, needs and wants. (nothing wrong with that!!)

But I also agree with Latin, to a point. Before you think of loving
someone, you have to love yourself and make yourself happy. However,
that does not mean that you will act selfishly and just go around
telling everyone to go to hell if things don't work. A relation ship is
about gains and loses.
To be loved, you need to love first..
To win, you need to lose…
To gain, you need to give first.

To be in love; what does it feel like? Well I'm more than half way
through my life, and I'm not certain that I can answer that. It's
different for everyone.

Love to me is walking in a room where he/she is and your heart skips a
beat,his/her eyes light up when they see you.They want to be your
friend,lover,companion.You should never ask anything of your mate(or
anyone) that you arent capable of doing yourself!!! I havent been in
love for a very long time.I have all these conceptions and thoughts of
how it should be and how it was at one time(20 yrs ago).Good luck girl
friend! Love has so many meanings and different to each
person!

The question is "what really is falling in love?" There is a difference
between "in love" and "love". In love has to do with all the physical
emotions that one experience when there is attraction for another. It is
all the things whisper said and more. "Love" supercedes "In love" in
that in involves all the logical attributes of what, why, and how the
one loved complements your life. In other words what he/she means to
you.
So one should never make life altering decisions based on the "in love"
characteristics but wait to see if love exist. You can be so physically
attracted to someone one day and hate him/she the next. Thats because
love never was borned.

Being in love is based on sexual stimulations while love is getting to
know someone who you will go the extra mile for even if there is no sex.
Love is sacrifice and commitment when desire is gone. "Love" will wait
and work to keep "in love" around. There is a difference.

yes you do RN,....all the advice you can get chick

Well as I have just fallen INLOVE,,,
I felt the earth stop when we kissed,
I felt her love and compassion through every small touch and glance.
I felt her heart beating in mine.
I felt her soul through staring into her eyes, and seeing it.
I felt her soft words melt the inner mind of my very being.
I felt so full of her I never wanted to stop talking to her.
I felt so full of her that I could live in her hugs, for life.
I felt her tears through my eyes.
I felt her loving me as so complete and so sincere and deep.
I felt her mind speaking my words.
I felt her completely knowing me to my inner and pure thoughts.
WE FELT THE SAME IN EVERYWAY, AND WE BOTH COULD NOT SEE US EVER (NOT
BEING TOGETHER)......

SO DID YOU FEEL THIS?????

awwwwwwwww!!! beautiful Im !!!!

Babe,,, You are my everything, your words full of passion
is the passion and love that we share... I am forever yours
and you are forever mine I Love You and have fallen
so deeply in Love with you...

I Love You Babe,, today, tomorrow until the end of time...

WOULD SOMEBODY JUST CHANGE THE DAMN CAT
BOX

And I u my heart of hearts!!

You have to ask yourself is it love or lust? Have I settled so as to not
be lonely? Am I just letting a desire take over my thinking? and if your
answers are lust, yes, and yes, then you are not in love. If you are in
love, then nothing will seperate the two of you, no matter how long the
relationship has been. You can love someone, but not be in love. To love
is a care for the wellbeing and is conditional. Being in love is
unconditional- no strings attached.